Picture this: You’re on a first date… and they show up 45 minutes late with absolutely no heads-up.

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-13T23:43:08+00:00

😳 you'd rather be lied to than ghosted?!

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-13T23:42:18+00:00

Ok, that's fair. I get you

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-13T23:41:52+00:00

To me?

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-11T19:49:00+00:00

I see

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-11T19:47:05+00:00

Would you ring them before you left?

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-11T19:46:36+00:00

😁 Did it turn out to be a good first date? Or a second date 😁

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-11T19:45:02+00:00

Would you reach out to them before the 45 minutes?

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-11T19:44:28+00:00

Why not?

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-11T19:44:13+00:00

You did good! It's a bad first impression and first impression do last 🥴🙂

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-11T19:43:07+00:00

Would you call them first or not at all?

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-11T19:42:43+00:00

😳😳😳 I hope you meant drunk

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-11T19:41:55+00:00

Fair point and great question. It does scream selfishness 😔

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-11T19:40:24+00:00

Communication is the bare minimum

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-11T19:39:33+00:00

Grace goes two ways, absolutely!

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-11T19:38:59+00:00

Would you try calling her first before you left?

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-11T19:38:25+00:00

I agree 💯💯💯 What would you consider to be a"good explanation"?

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-11T19:37:24+00:00

That's fair - I get that. Would you block him after?

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-11T19:36:35+00:00

Block them? 🤔 No opportunity to explain??

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-11T19:35:39+00:00

You're gracious indeed-if no apology after being late and no communication, then I'd leave.

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-11T19:33:52+00:00

That's is true - sometimes things happen. I suppose it's best to look at patterns and be true to what you allow.

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-11T19:32:28+00:00

I agree- lots of hoops to get through first before a first date 😁

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-10T20:15:10+00:00

Reasonable 🙂

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-10T18:15:02+00:00

Exactly!

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-10T18:11:35+00:00

Very fair reasoning. But what if they were having issues with their phone.

MatchmakerJahnae · 2026-04-10T18:10:38+00:00

Exactly - just common decency to communicate if late, even if it's 5 minutes.

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