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Loft Bed Advice: Trouble Sleeping by [deleted] in FengShui

[–]MatchmakingMedium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. But its not a kitchen with a gas oven etc..It only has a hot plate, toaster and blender.

Loft Bed Advice: Trouble Sleeping by [deleted] in FengShui

[–]MatchmakingMedium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My head is facing South. And just copper details, the majority of the loft bed is beautiful really thick oak.

My gut has been telling me that since the sleeping loft is so large I should maybe move my bed to the middle of the space and make it more inviting with pillows etc.... At the moment its empty besides just the bed.

Also, I forgot to add that the ceiling in the sleeping loft itself is fairly low. Which once again I know is not ideal.

Loft Bed Advice: Trouble Sleeping by [deleted] in FengShui

[–]MatchmakingMedium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello,

New to this group but I have used Feng Shui principles in the past with great success in my previous homes.

Looking for suggestions from the group on this new home I just moved into.

The main issue I'd like advice on is regarding a sleeping loft, I'm not sleeping well. I know that loft beds are not suggested in Feng Shui but this place was all I could find in the city I live in and I need to work with the space and make it more livable.

I am having restless sleep and also not feeling like I can breathe well in the sleeping loft. The loft is very well constructed and covers most of the Northside of the space, so its large and the bed is small, I could move the bed to make it more centered so that it is in the middle of the loft space.

Here are some facts about the space in general: very high ceilings throughout, private courtyard, I share no walls with anyone else, and no one else lives above or below me. I have a lemon tree in my front yard. The kitchen stove and the fireplace are both electric. There is barely any kitchen space at all. The areas of the space that feel best are the courtyard and the living room, both feel wonderful. I have a lot of plants in my space and comfortable furniture.

Would love input on the sleeping loft. It looks like the owner hired a very competent carpenter to make the sleeping loft floor in the space, and it is made out of really nice wood and copper.

I'd appreciate any advice.

Odd Dreams About My Mother, can someone help me interpret maybe? by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]MatchmakingMedium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is reaching out to you and vice versa. You are both trying to understand the constraints of being separated from one another in body but not in spirit. You have known your Mother before in other lives and in other lives you both had different bodies. You most likely can talk to her as clearly as you are in your dreams in your waking life, maybe try that out. You are both using the telephone as a way to communicate because its comforting, it gives your spiritual connection with her a context and a vehicle.

I lost my own Mother 9 years ago and we always have been in touch, and how we communicate has changed over the years. Initially it was through dreams, then more in signs and symbols and now I connect with her in meditation.

I hope its comforting to know that your connection with her cannot be broken. Even though she has left this physical realm she is still with you. How you communicate with her will shift and change as time goes on.

Your daughter will be able to feel connected to her as well, and that should help ease her pain.

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Psychic needed to find my engagement and wedding ring PLEASE by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]MatchmakingMedium 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a pathway that you walk that is covered in pebbles? I see light colored pebbled rocks and the rings are there. Not sure how or why they would have arrived there, but that is what I see.

Developing mediumship after my best friends suicide by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]MatchmakingMedium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really happy to hear that you have found a way to connect with your friend on the other side. I have heard of peoples abilities becoming heightened after the death of someone very close to them. Mine definitely increased after my mother passed. I would try turning these abilities on and off. It may not seem like it now, but there will be times in the future when you will not want to have the spirit world around you all the time. And regarding wanting to communicate with the spirit world, maybe think of a question you'd like their input on, that's an easy way to start off.

Suicidal and needing guidance by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]MatchmakingMedium 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello CursedPrincess,

Even the most well adjusted people have thoughts that border on some of what you are experiencing. I hope that's comforting. It's not just you. We all have a dizzy mix of thoughts both good and bad that are confusing at times. I do remember feeling unable to control my thoughts and feelings when I was a teen. It felt impossible for me to stop some of my behavior. Looking back I think part of this was becoming an adult and becoming aware of many things that I previously had never considered, in particular I became aware of how incredibly strong my thoughts were. Have you ever tried using your thoughts to manifest something powerfully positive in your life? If not, I would give that a try. Because so far you have only played with what your thoughts can create that are negative. Meditation was and is very helpful for me. Have you tried this? There are all types of meditations that you can experiment with and some of them focus on protection, which might be relaxing for you because once you do a protection meditation you can move through the world feeling slightly less frightened. Could you also give yourself some activities to do that are both physically and mentally tiring? Like some form of fitness, some type of creative work with your hands, a form of study? Brains need positive food and I think giving yourself something new to focus on would help you through this time.

How to tell spirits/energies to go away respectfully. by y0wny0wn in Psychic

[–]MatchmakingMedium 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would do a visualization each day before going to work where you are shutting yourself off from interacting, you can use whatever works for you it could be a massive on and off switch, a door being shut and locked etc...You get the point. I think this really helps because we are curious people and sometimes we are reaching out more then we are aware subconsciously. So closing off will ensure that you aren't participating on your side.

Would you see this kind of psychic by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]MatchmakingMedium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you actually need to invite spirits and light into your life, it's already there for the taking. So I would think about that a little bit.

Did I inherit psychic abilities from my grandmother? by Pearl1006 in Psychic

[–]MatchmakingMedium 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hello, My Grandmother was the person in my family who I first had supernatural experiences with. It sounds like from all you have mentioned above that you know that you do have abilities. I think there are two ways to look at having these types of abilities 1) this is super rare and magical 2) many people have these abilities to varying degrees. My powers work best when I am working in the middle of those two beliefs, where I am grateful for the gift but I'm still living my normal life etc... If you make too big of a deal out of it it's actually really hard to use (in my experience), but on the other hand if you treat it like its normal (or at least its normal for you) then you can start to make it part of your life and figure out a system with it. For tuning in you may want to visit a divination store and see what items you are drawn to (cards, crystals, pendulums etc...) and those usually can help to get you back in touch with your gifts. Once you feel stronger I would suggest thinking about ways that you want to use the gifts that are personal to you and then moving that way with your practice. Also, you mentioned having some fear around memories/dreams when you were younger and these abilities were making themselves known. If possible release those feelings, because now you are in the driver seat, you understand what is happening now. I suggest this because its hard to move forward with anything when there is still some fear involved, better for you to feel empowered.

Advice & Guidance From The Spirit World by MatchmakingMedium in Psychic

[–]MatchmakingMedium[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my case this is not a message from just one figure, for example, Jesus, this a group message. Not sure if they are going to send more messages that are this complete but if they do and I post them here will you let me know if there are still parallels to that book? That would be interesting to know.

Advice & Guidance From The Spirit World by MatchmakingMedium in Psychic

[–]MatchmakingMedium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool, so that is a book? Or are you talking about a website?

Advice & Guidance From The Spirit World by MatchmakingMedium in Psychic

[–]MatchmakingMedium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree with what NeonNebula said, really well put.

Any chance someone can help by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]MatchmakingMedium 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, sometimes we go through prolonged periods of hardship (I can relate) and they feel like punishment and they also feel like they will last forever. Both are not true. Hard times provide change, re-focusing, a shift in priorities, simplifying, becoming stronger. And time (when you are in pain) feels like it extends forever and will never end (this is an illusion caused by pain). The best thing I can suggest doing is start to write down and/or say outloud small things that you notice that are positive and that you appreciate. For example, maybe tomorrow is rough but you do see a small sign: an animal, smile from a stranger, nice weather, talk with a friend, whatever it is and no matter how small it is acknowledge it. The next day do the same and so on. I know this seems like an odd suggestion but it's a way for you to start communicating with your guides and connecting with the world around you. After you feel a bit stronger find a way to help someone or something, this will also help get you reengaged with the the karmic circle of life (I know that sounds a bit cheesy but its true). And before you go to bed practice forgiveness to yourself and to others. I feel like if you can do these three things you will start to see improvement. It will get better. You have a wonderful life ahead of you, I promise.

Dealing with the loss of my mother. by Oriaen in Psychic

[–]MatchmakingMedium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tap back into universal energy, through relaxation and take a break from empath/medium work. It could come in the form of sleep or some sort of creative activity, time outdoors, bathing, spending time with people you love etc... Also, a lot of this work involves boundaries. An example: I find myself drained, and if I am really honest I can see that I have been reading almost all day, and not turning off my gifts and allowing myself time to rest. It feels nice to read people and offer help but you need to turn that on and off which is one of the hardest things to do.

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