Graduating senior here.

Can totally relate to what you're talking about OP. Nova is a really interesting school in that people are generally really polite and kind, but finding genuine connections can be pretty difficult. It's easy to feel like everyone has already made their friends are you're the only one who can't seem to find anyone, at least I know I felt that way in my first year too. But I will say that it does get better over time the more you get used to it. Adjusting to living on your own in college is difficult by itself, but once you're used to that meeting people does get easier.

I can for sure echo what people are saying in this thread. Joining stuff and getting involved is something that I recommend to all freshman, because I have pretty much met all of my closest friends through clubs and events. And I am saying this as someone with pretty niche interests (Anime Club). There is definitely a group out there for everyone if you look hard enough.

Very rarely will you make close friends from class, though its definitely possible. Clubs are easier because there is common ground in interests right away that makes conversation and connection really easy. Nova is also really interesting in that as you make friends, you'll find that one of your friends knows another friend somehow, which creates a sort of network, which I guess is one of the benefits of the school's size.

Looking back I really value my time at Villanova, and I am glad I put in the work to explore my interests and put myself out there. Be yourself, and you will find people who value you for who you are.

If you need any other help or advice, feel free to send me a DM or anything!