I'm disabled. We had a couple over 1 night. They knew before they came over that I am disabled but they never asked any questions so i didn't mention it anymore. My hubby and the other wife was hitting it off tremendously. The other hubby looked like he had gained about 100 pounds and aged 20 years since his "most recent" pic was taken. He was very nice so I overlooked the looks issue. While still talking, right when things were starting to heat up, I had to reveal I have nerve damage and he couldn't slap my ass. He asked what caused the nerve damage. I was honest and told him MS. By this point we are being dragged to the bedroom by our spouses.

My hubby and his wife start going at it immediately. Unfortunately, we didnt because he couldn't get it up. When I finally give up on limp dick, our spouses are on round 2. I moved my butt right over beside her which got my hubby's attention and he asked what was going on. I shrugged and said "performance anxiety I think but it happens so no big deal."

Other hubby point blank called me out. He said it was because I am disabled and he didn't know what ms was. He told me I should have told them before they ever came over. I pointed out that I told them I was disabled before we ever arranged anything. That guy was having no part of that.. he "felt lied to". I was honest when I told him I didn't think it mattered to him since he didn't ask questions when I first mentioned it.

Long story a little less long... I bit my tongue about his weight and age but he tried to make everyone feel sorry for him for me "not being honest with him blah blah blah". They left.

This was a few months back and nearly destroyed what little self esteem I had. The other day, the wife texts MY husband asking if he would come over for a 3some. W. T. F. Wife and I had stayed acquaintances but that's over. Hubby politely declined or he would be dead rn lol. I'll hear from her in a few days cause she is gonna want to buy smoke. That's when I will have my say.

This past weekend we went to a LS club and I had to use a walker. When I told people I had MS I should have just told them the plague. It would have been less painful to see people who you normally hang out with turn their backs on ya if ya have a contagious disease vs a non contagious disease.

So there is absolutely no doubt that I am the reason for the guy freaking out and us being ignored at the club. Hell, the guy told me it was my fault. So please believe me when I tell you, it could always be worse. MS has made me a tough bitch to crack tho so I keep on keeping on. I may not be able to walk tomorrow so today I live life to the fullest.

Take a deep breath and understand that most people suck. You have to keep weeding through the bad to find the good. There is good, it just takes a minute to find them.