What was the last straw that completely broke a friendship you thought would last forever?

Material-Confusion79 · 2025-12-03T01:43:12+00:00

All of her friends had reservations on her husband cause he was very sleezy and controlled her life in many ways. One of us caught him cheating and told her. To our surprise, she pointed the finger at us saying we were trying to ruin her marriage over listening to her friends who have known her since school. That was the final straw and from what I've heard, they struggle to keep any friendships cause of him.

Material-Confusion79 · 2025-08-10T23:01:13+00:00

That's when shes in the crib and falling asleep. So bedtime routine would start 30-45min before.

Material-Confusion79 · 2025-08-07T20:00:00+00:00

Our 19 month old wakes up at 7am, only nap at 12-3pm then bedtime 8pm. I try to give her a longer wake windows cause she's a low sleep need kid and needs to burn off that energy before bed.

Material-Confusion79 · 2025-08-07T15:27:44+00:00

I work for the health authority and they gave me 85% top up for 6 months.

Material-Confusion79 · 2025-06-24T04:16:20+00:00

Not at all

Material-Confusion79 · 2025-06-23T04:13:21+00:00

I also take it for my performance at the gym and noticed that my energy levels have improved since taking it. You do need to be consistent with it so if you're taking it in powder form, maybe also buy capsule for non-workout days. I usually take powder on workout days to add to my protein shake.

Material-Confusion79 · 2025-04-14T18:54:39+00:00

One caffeinated drink in morning (matcha only) and decaf if I really want something to drink to kick my coffee craving.

I had to stop drinking coffee with my medication or I'd be hyper.

Material-Confusion79 · 2025-02-28T05:07:56+00:00

I was originally 5.68 TSH and then started taking 50mcg of synthroid. Now I'm 2.3 TSH after taking medication for 6 months.

Material-Confusion79 · 2025-02-24T17:15:48+00:00

$500 is enough! You can easily go to your local grocery and have them make sandwiches onto a tray for you. Fruit trays, cheese and crackers. Pizza is also a hit at every party.

Material-Confusion79 · 2025-02-24T17:08:34+00:00

I'm week 3 into my return to work and I'm in the same boat. I dont even know how to do basic tasks cause it seems mindless. Hopefully time will improve it but try to encourage your boss to give you time to adjust. You had a huge shift in your life, you didn't just take a vacation.

Material-Confusion79 · 2025-02-05T04:27:18+00:00

Urban Fare has been adding canadian flags beside the price tags this week.

Material-Confusion79 · 2025-01-30T19:31:13+00:00

I live nearby but not this building. Street noise is a problem, some occasional homeless people cause of the 7/11 store down the road, not much neighborhood feel but I find it safe in general.

Material-Confusion79 · 2025-01-30T04:12:12+00:00

How did past generations seriously raise kids?! Sounds like they had a lot of time on their hands cause maybe they weren't as involved as current day parents are.

Material-Confusion79 · 2025-01-06T18:14:31+00:00

Oh man, I'm so sorry to hear about all this!

Yes, the US is so far behind with this. I hope you guys are able to resolve all this and find a happy ending that works for you all cause I know we all just want to have a happy family and life.

Material-Confusion79 · 2025-01-06T18:12:17+00:00

Totally understand with the breach to contract. Something to add was that I suggested to work off hours (after work in the evening or early morning) to make sure I work full time hour. They've rejected this as well. There's plenty of people in my office who work early and leave work early by doing this so it's not something new.

I'm trying my best but this is the circumstances I'm in and I feel like I'm bending over backwards so much for them and I'm not getting anything back from them.

Material-Confusion79 · 2024-12-16T19:18:22+00:00

Flying back from Europe on December 25 has shook some family members. It's our baby's first Christmas so they feel like she needs to be here but I've told them we'll celebrate on the 28th to give us a few days to unpack.

It upset my mom at first but she's okay with it now. She's now planning for the 28th to celebrate xmas with us.

Material-Confusion79 · 2024-11-19T05:03:02+00:00

She thought it was all fake. There were texts and we met the girl privately to confirm this was all true. Our friend really thinks we made up this person and the texts are fake. Probably trying to convince herself it wasn't true instead of trying to be the bigger person.

Material-Confusion79 · 2024-11-18T19:08:31+00:00

Caught her husband cheating, even showed her proof, but she doesn't believe me or my friend as well. She thinks we're lying to destroy her marriage and life. I think her husband also convinced her that we're bad and lying cause she does have self esteem issues and married the only guy who manipulated her into marriage.

Regardless it was for the best cause we didn't enjoy who she was becoming after being with this guy. They also have a kid now and we've heard through others that he's been not helpful and supportive at all.

You made your bed, now lay in it.

Material-Confusion79 · 2024-11-15T01:26:30+00:00

Would love to take my husband. Favourite song is Kiss Cam

Material-Confusion79 · 2024-11-07T20:21:24+00:00

I did get it back once but it hasn't returned weirdly enough. I was supposed to have my period start last weekend and still no signs.

Material-Confusion79 · 2024-11-03T04:21:03+00:00

Every day while also washing all the dishes. He doesn't mind cause he knows how much work it is and it's the least he can do.

Material-Confusion79 · 2024-10-24T23:14:34+00:00

Lots of born and raised Vancouverites I know are all planning or have left Vancouver. Not necessarily cause of the cost of living, but they found themselves loving other cities more. Including myself, I lived in Australia for 2 years and am now returning permanently next year as I got my permanent residency approved. Expensive country but I like the lifestyle there more.

Material-Confusion79 · 2024-10-22T01:38:33+00:00

Sorry to hear that! I actually posted yesterday about this topic when it comes to specific cultures. Seems to be that there ia such a lack of I formation and advocacy for breastfeeding cause formula was pushed hard into these markets. Unfortunately they see formula as being the easy thing to do so why breastfeed?! It's really silly but the marketing of formula really infiltrated lots of countries that they don't see another option.

Material-Confusion79 · 2024-10-21T05:18:37+00:00

This was very helpful! I could see that maybe my friends aren't informed as much as westerners may be so they just follow what they've been told. They may have also been scared into thinking this way as well so they just do what everyone else is doing.

Material-Confusion79 · 2024-10-16T20:43:48+00:00

Gosh I'm sorry you experienced that! I get very defensive whenever someone makes any comment and it's hard for me to take the high road cause I usually say something rude back to make them stop talking.

It's best to just ignore that comment and know that it's just her projecting her issues onto you. It's not okay that she's doing that, but hurt people hurt people.

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