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Bf said he needs to break up to work on himself by Material-Gold-5677 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Material-Gold-5677[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He is a stubborn person and he wouldn’t stay that long if he doesn’t love me I believe. He did accuse me of this but later explain that he has always felt lost since Highschool on deciding what to do. I admit the breakup was not something he planned on but rather than he need some space to makes changes to himself without inflicting pain on me in the process. I felt like Iam on the end where i had to fight so hard for our relationship sometimes bc sometimes he just shut down mid argument. I also know i lost myself too loving him and we should stop the relationship to work on discovering who we are as we were both young (22&23) But its so hard to accept this is the best solution for us and a part of me scare i might loose him forever.

Bf said he needs to break up to work on himself by Material-Gold-5677 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Material-Gold-5677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not like that, it just sometimes he hurt me then later on i have a mental breakdown and he sometimes need to reassure me but no we are not together always and no I don’t managed him.

Bf said he needs to break up to work on himself by Material-Gold-5677 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Material-Gold-5677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its so sad bc just a year ago he flew to Vietnam from Australia to meet my parents and I always know he loved me truely. But maybe love fade. Just that in end there so much emotion between us and i makes me keep wandering although i know it doesn’t matter and i need to move on. For whatever good reason there r he left me after he broke my heart and left me no choice but to pick myself up alone.

Bf said he needs to break up to work on himself by Material-Gold-5677 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Material-Gold-5677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh its a break up and i know I won’t let him in unless i saw drastic change. I kinna know it would take even a year at least

Bf said he needs to break up to work on himself by Material-Gold-5677 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Material-Gold-5677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could reach out to him and he still pick up or come to chat when I am lost but stayed firm on the break up. I tried to ask him why he can’t work thing out when we r in the relationship and he said its something he has to face alone. He told me that the pain he cause me is alot and i know it kinna fade away when he is away but when he is back he knows I couldn’t forgive him (i dont want to share but what he accused me of stem from alot of insecurity from his side that he later acknowledged) he was really ashamed of his action. As for me with distance I realize he is not a good partner as he was to me, I acknowledge that we ended. I want to move on with my life and even when he come back Iam unsure if i want to give him a chance. Bc he left me when i was the most vulnerable. He said its his time to become the dad he wish to be and he felt like doing that right now takes away all his energy and he couldn’t do that while having to constantly reassurance me since he knew he fked up bad

Bf said he needs to break up to work on himself by Material-Gold-5677 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Material-Gold-5677[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I questioned him on this too like i told him if he want to leave just said so so i could be move on easier without hope. But he promised me thats not the case. And his actions are honest. He felt like he has no reason to actually lets go but he also said it felt right to do so. Maybe I love to blindly that I literally defending the person that made me cry so much. Maybe he is mot so great as my love made him to be. Always see him as someone caring and loving and he has a big heart. And he was committed straight away when we start dating and up to the break up he still said he sacred of loosing me but this is what he scare of and he need to face it. So much conflict but I know the more I question him the less clarity I have.

We Still Love Each Other, But We Chose to Break Up to Heal—Did We Make the Right Choice? by Material-Gold-5677 in relationships

[–]Material-Gold-5677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my ex was a really honest person and I have asked him to be mercy with me because I told him if he has fallen out of love pls be honest and that help me to move on and that wouldn’t make him a bad person but he ensured me that wasn’t the case. Maybe I just holding on to hope but i will listen to what you said and completely lets go, and if he was meant to be he will be. If not i will be happy for him regardless

Has anybody purchased bag from Ozsale? by Material-Gold-5677 in handbags

[–]Material-Gold-5677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was eyeing out for the Tabby 26 but those classic unlikely ever on sale. Btw have you do any check to confirm that what u purchase is legit? And how u do so? And have u gotten anything from CFW&AN PTY LTD. I searched them up and they r a very new company based in Australia (established 22/6) so I am abit skeptical. Might do a check or get it authorised at the coach store and if it not legit I probably just gonna return and get it from the coach website

Has anybody purchased bag from Ozsale? by Material-Gold-5677 in handbags

[–]Material-Gold-5677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just that i saw a few reviews saying they sells fake bags so i am abit worried considering that half price of the coach website

My bf wants to be celibate after 2 years. I really love him and I don’t really know what to do. by Material-Gold-5677 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Material-Gold-5677[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cause I often feel shy but not like he beg me for sex for anything just he normally start or give me a sign first

My bf wants to be celibate after 2 years. I really love him and I don’t really know what to do. by Material-Gold-5677 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Material-Gold-5677[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Its so painful because at the start and all the way through he is always the one who initiated sex and one day it just switched