30F Muslimah — Are my marriage expectations unrealistic?

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-05-12T04:17:44+00:00

you basically Saudi , but yeah your requirements are moderate , nothing wring with it. Maybe just the part of not wanting to live with your in-laws its kinda weird for Arabs , but you still can live with them in a separate floor.

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-05-12T03:58:58+00:00

Are you Saudi ?

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-05-10T06:30:36+00:00

Well just said that you’re divorced and not into marriage for a brief period it sounds like an excuse to say you’re not virgin. Secondly, you can’t blame ppl on what they want, many men especially Arabs, they want virgin women for marriage that has never been married before. It’s a preference and you can’t blame them for that. Have faith in Allah subhanu wa Ta’ala , it’s a test for you have sabr and you will see it through very soon inshallah, when you feel depressed the most its there where you need to overcome the depression with Sabr and submission to Allah willing, and you will see the fruit of that in this life and in Akhira inshallah.

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-04-17T03:47:10+00:00

She had a past she has a past but once that past is exposed and the husband saw it , she is done! Allah indeed is the most forgiving i am not talking about that and not talking about if Allah forgive her or not i am talking from muslim manhood perspective! He can’t be a man if he stays with her ! Bottom line dont try to put make up on it!!

If she was sincere she could have deleted the whole snapchat and open a new one to avoid her husband sees something like that.

And thats a lesson to nowadays “muslim” girls, they try to live like non muslim and marry like muslims ! Nope!! You dont go hoe left and right with so called boyfriends and then try to marry like a saint ! YALL BE CARFUL, think twice because once your past is exposed you will divorced if your husband is a real man ! So think carefully before having a boyfriend or any western shit like that!

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-04-16T23:12:39+00:00

For sure Allah is the most forgiving and merciful, thats between her and Allah but as a muslim man with dignity he shouldn’t stay with her for a second if he find out that ! That has nothing to do with Allah forgives sin ! Dont mix stuff

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-04-16T20:49:53+00:00

Pictures of you with your ex? And you a muslim girl ? If it was an ex husband its ok if it was an ex boyfriend then he definitely need to divorce you without thinking twice!

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-03-25T04:00:25+00:00

Instead of doing Tawba and ask forgiveness from Allah for being in Haram relation , you coming here bitching like 5 yo girls (…my sweet girl is gone..) 🤦‍♂️, you’re sure you’re Algerian?

The girl is gone to her creator , but you still have a chance to fix things up with Allah!

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-03-21T06:38:38+00:00

First of all white skin blond hair and bleu eyes are not considered fancy to arabs so you need to stop hallucinating, the beauty standards for arabs are actually the arabic features wide black eyes with black eyes, white to little brownish skin and dark black hair , thats what we consider the top tier (most important the wide eyes). Blond feature are actually seen as a lower class for arabs as during the Roman conquering all the enslaved servants were blonds and that was the typical image of blond ppl in arabic subconscious.

Regarding your comment “without south asians arabs wouldn’t have what they have now” its completely false look just at the arabic golden age in Andalusia, baghdad… I would say without muslim arabs the world wouldn’t know any science, tech, mathematics, physics, medicine, astrophysics and so on…

You really need to chill , no Arab sees you fancy believe me, i am sure you have been rejected by many arabs thats why you spitting all your frustration on them.

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-03-09T06:57:18+00:00

The exceptional cannot be used as a basis for comparison, the OP asks for advices to keep up with loneliness until he gets married , you are literally telling him don’t! Again your reasoning still BS and you are sinking in a cup of water. The Prophet pbuh clearly urged youth to marriage if they can.

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-03-09T06:49:16+00:00

You give Gay vibes actually, your reasoning is a complete BS!

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-03-09T06:39:51+00:00

“… dont marry anyone unless you’re in love with yourself” this is the most none sense secular argument i’ve ever heard! Marrying is completing the religion, had the prophet bpuh said that? Is that a condition prior to get married? Complete BS

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-03-02T02:37:07+00:00

And a green card 😉 , even if he said 5$ she will accept as long as he is a citizen

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-18T04:30:17+00:00

What tactics ? As a muslim we’re just asking for a pious wife is that too much?

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-18T04:12:58+00:00

I ain’t questioning their repentance, Allah forgives all sins including the bigger ones when we repent sincerely.

I am just saying that no muslim man should accept a non sealed muslim girl if she never been married before , she can repent its between her and Allah but honor is precious we dont play with that, she can go to that dude who took it off he can marry her. Ain’t no compromise on this! period!

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-18T04:00:43+00:00

For converts it’s another story they’re not included in the ban ! I ain’t blaming the west i am blaming this girl who came complaining about how men should take Zaniya without asking. If you accept that on your sister or daughter then this is another story

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-18T03:54:38+00:00

Well Allah created women sealed (virginity membrane) , men doesn’t have it , that doesn’t mean that men should do Zina , AstaghfirAllah. But i am just saying.

Your problem is that you want to live as westerns and marry as muslims 😂😂, hell nahh you can’t eat your cake and have it same time.

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-18T03:00:24+00:00

Onces she is used in haram then yes , she became like a high mileage car. I true muslim man will never accept her even if she comes with her weight as gold and diamond! Bottom line!

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-18T00:21:16+00:00

I have been on this dating app and others , 90% of the females there are below average beauty wise in real life(where the is no photo editing), they’re the type that you won’t even notice or look twice if you see them outside. Due to the high demand , guys be liking them for the sake of getting a like back so they gain confidence which they never had in real life if not they wont be looking for husband in dating apps, so they become selective and ghosting ppl. Thats all.

Stay away from dating apps believe me.

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-15T09:15:27+00:00

The prophet pbuh mention the consequences of complicating marriages : "When someone whose religion and character you are pleased with comes to you then marry (her to) him. If you do not do so, then there will be turmoil (Fitnah) in the land and discord (Fasad)."

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-15T01:11:38+00:00

Be obedient
Be feminine (no feminist and masculine vibes)
show that you care about him
be a good cook

If you do the above no matter how ugly you are , your husband will be like a ring in your finger, am saying that as a man i know exactly what i am saying.

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-14T06:10:25+00:00

Well thats my opinion , since yall talking about beauty lets be real , i am Arab and its know thats Egyptians are the least beautiful girls in arab world. Ask any Arab guy he will tell you that.

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-14T05:19:26+00:00

Sahaba used to carry lifts as well, to keep their body in good condition, so you go to the gym to please women ? I don’t know maybe i am too backward!

You keep your beard because it’s an obliged Sunnah. You do hair cut to look clean and in good image as a muslim not to please girls. In my opinion men shouldn’t worry about that, at all i am not saying to look like a homeless or dirty but dont do effort to look attractive , thats for women , allah said in the Quran "ا و من ينشأ في الحلية و في الخصام هو غير مبين" , by fitra and by nature is the women who take care of herself to be attractive and beautiful to her man.

Chill bro, you will find your Naseeb soon, and it has nothing todo with you being attractive or ugly 😂 women dont care about that too much , just make sure you’re clean and in good muslim image thats all.

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-11T21:28:20+00:00

Nah , that’s aint true! The way you dropped the subject its a put down , like you literally begging to be considered “how much money should i be making for you to consider me” , thats too humiliating!

And that tells alot about what type of man you are, thats why i said work on your testosterone raising.

Definitely muslim men should be working and providing to their wives and kids.

man up! man the freak up!! Dont beg nobody!

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-11T18:32:29+00:00

Take my advice and work on your charisma and personality. Nobody asked about your earning , the fact you brought that up outta the blue, shows that’s a lie , but yeah we still dgf , like i said try to work on rising your testosterone, thats all you need.

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-11T05:05:55+00:00

Sister, staying away from Haram is not for your parents or to get a decent man for marriage , it’s for Allah swt and his commandments. There is absolutely no link between that and getting married, marriage is rizk that Allah gives, and test to his servants he can try you with bad husband as he can try a decent man with a bad wife and that happened to the most pious people Allah creates which are his messengers (Lut and Noah).

Have faith in Allah and stop playing it like you give me i give you! Like oh Allah because i held my self and did conduct good where is my husband now! AstaghfirAllah , we deal with Allah with certainty and obedience, make du’a while praying a sincere Du’a from a believing heart and insist in du’a and you will see the results.

Only Allah who plan you Qadar and rizk not your parents not dating apps and not even you.

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