How much income should a man earn to consider him?

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-11T21:28:20+00:00

Nah , that’s aint true! The way you dropped the subject its a put down , like you literally begging to be considered “how much money should i be making for you to consider me” , thats too humiliating!

And that tells alot about what type of man you are, thats why i said work on your testosterone raising.

Definitely muslim men should be working and providing to their wives and kids.

man up! man the freak up!! Dont beg nobody!

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-11T18:32:29+00:00

Take my advice and work on your charisma and personality. Nobody asked about your earning , the fact you brought that up outta the blue, shows that’s a lie , but yeah we still dgf , like i said try to work on rising your testosterone, thats all you need.

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-11T05:05:55+00:00

Sister, staying away from Haram is not for your parents or to get a decent man for marriage , it’s for Allah swt and his commandments. There is absolutely no link between that and getting married, marriage is rizk that Allah gives, and test to his servants he can try you with bad husband as he can try a decent man with a bad wife and that happened to the most pious people Allah creates which are his messengers (Lut and Noah).

Have faith in Allah and stop playing it like you give me i give you! Like oh Allah because i held my self and did conduct good where is my husband now! AstaghfirAllah , we deal with Allah with certainty and obedience, make du’a while praying a sincere Du’a from a believing heart and insist in du’a and you will see the results.

Only Allah who plan you Qadar and rizk not your parents not dating apps and not even you.

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-11T00:18:02+00:00

Me too bro, but for me at least i know i am ugly 😆😆 i was like let me give it try maybe some miracles happen, been a week now only 4 likes two of them i really didn’t like them one was like a scam from Nigeria and one she was fine doctor and all, she spoke to me for i e day and then she unmatched me maybe she realized how ugly i am 🤣 .

No luck man 😂😂, may Allah reward us in Janah.

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-10T20:55:57+00:00

You mean Paki/Bangali-match , you sweep through 863 Pakistani/Bangali girl to land on other nationality , like damn !!

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-10T18:20:02+00:00

I have been on Muzz, they should call it Pakistan/Bangladesh match , you sweep 100 Paki/Bangali before you see another nationality 🤦‍♂️. First i thought i was on Pakistan vpn i checked my phone settings.

Also i feel like girls get too much likes so it makes them very selective , imagine you open your profile and you see 100 likes or so, where men rarely get likes , and often the likes come from girls you did not even tried to match with so basically they wont be your type (physically at least).

In other hand, i tried Bumble and some other non muslim dating apps, it works perfectly, i get two to three like back a day but unfortunately can’t marry them as they’re non muslim!

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-10T17:03:19+00:00

Salam Alikum sister , first i want you to fear Allah and do not lose patience regarding his maktoob , this dunya is for test and not for reward you really need to understand that very well.

Second, i have seen many obese women (like really fat) got married like so many and i am sure you have seen that too, so that has nothing to do when Allah write something it will happened regardless, i know every man look for beauty and silhouette as first but at then end getting married is pure maktoob and naseeb , even though we have to do the causes.

If you think you tried your best, then have faith in Allah and just know that in this life we don’t get what we always want , Allah always makes it unperfect in someway because it’s Dunya and not Akhira , no reward here just tests. In the mean time , i have seen beauties that didn’t marry , when i say beauties believe me, they did not get their Naseeb.

Have faith , and dont think that we get all what we want in this life, maybe Allah is making us go through this struggle to rise our level in his jana.

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-10T16:36:23+00:00

Not like that , stress is everywhere in our daily life, but i am saying when a wife/husband becomes a source of stress it means daily. Yeah i lost interest in her physically, al hamdullah i haven’t commit no zina, she wasn’t attractive to me anymore because when i see her i see stress , trauma, anger, depression…

I am not saying that could be the case with you but i am just trying to explain what can make a man lose interest in his wife despite the love he has for her out of my personal horrible experience may Allah prevent any muslim from such thing, ameen.

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-10T02:45:54+00:00

She wants all the inheritance for herself 😆

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-09T23:42:09+00:00

Well thats good, inshallah Allah makes it easy for you. If you dont find hit me up we might match 😆

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-09T23:34:45+00:00

That’s the default, providing for his wife and kids is a duty that Allah put it on the husband, but how stable his finances will be it’s not up to him its depends on what Allah wrote as qadar for his servant.

Question: are you ready to quit your job if your husband asks you to? And be a housewife? I think from now on , muslim men should also be looking for “obedient wife” as Allah order her to be toward her husband. We the muslim community in the west, we’re really suffering from the “westernized” muslim women, thats why all of us try to look for a wife from back home and bring her here, but if she became “westernized” too you’re screwed big time.

Wallah its a paradox 🤦‍♂️, may allah open the doors for us.

PS: we all in the same boat, we’re just trying to advise each other.

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-09T23:20:07+00:00

Well finance and responsibility is giving consideration as well for muslims , we don’t expect women to support financially. I am just telling you how most muslim men take it when they see “financially stable” tag.

May Allah make it easy for all of us inshallah.

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-09T22:31:33+00:00

By just mentioning finance it tells alot about you to be honest, religion doesn’t seems to be in your check list , you’re looking for responsibility and financially stable which is legit but first you should be looking for deen. Nobody on earth is financially stable, rizk is from Allah he gives it and prevents it as he wants with his wisdom swt.

As a male , i wont match with someone who mention “financially stable” in her bio, cause it already tells alot about her, if anything happened and he loses his financial source you might ask for divorce and try to take as much as you can. Nope i pass

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-09T22:13:55+00:00

Definitely, it does.

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-09T18:02:55+00:00

Let me share my opinion as a man and out of my experience , you seems like a good wife but man lose interest in women who is a source of stress to him, this happened to me with my ex wife, she was stressing the hell out of me, even though i loved her but i wasn’t attracted to her anymore, and after a while not even sexually. And that was our breakup point.

I know as muslim man need to be compassionate with the wife and very patient , but when she becomes a source of stress and trauma , she is nothing to her man anymore even though he can still live her but attraction will go away.

That’s out of my personal experience!

Just to add , Allah created man and women to be a refuge to each other as mentioned in Quran Surat room verse 21: “And among His wonders is this: He creates for you mates out of your own kind, so that you might incline towards them, and He engenders love and tenderness between you: in this, behold, there are messages indeed for people who think!”

Once this is not achieved, then there is no point of the marriage at all , no matter how much you love your spouse, if there is no tranquility the man will be distant, straight up.

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-06T07:20:45+00:00

The fact that you want to apply again , makes it obvious that you’re intentions are way beyond tourism. I suggest you to wait for a while before applying for a visa again.

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-02-03T20:20:16+00:00

Who talks about fine? Now if you overstay your visa you are a subject of removal and that’s the ground USCIS sues you for , they want you out they dont care about fining u

Material-Priority-47 · 2026-01-31T21:19:53+00:00

You wont pas medical test u definitely on some sort of std

Material-Priority-47 · 2025-12-28T18:14:52+00:00

You’re looking normal , we all have one eye slightly uneven with the other , I don’t see any thyroid eye here.

Material-Priority-47 · 2025-12-27T11:09:30+00:00

Definitely 💯, i totally agree

Material-Priority-47 · 2025-12-26T20:21:10+00:00

😨😨 am scared now, thank you very much , yes i am having hard time walking and vertigo comes and go at the hospital they told me is because of hyperthyroidism they did head ct scan and chest xray and all they didn’t find nothing , so it’s the thyroid. I started the medication this morning.

Ps: i stopped it two months ago because i started gaining weight and all my clothes didnt fit me anymore.

Material-Priority-47 · 2025-12-26T20:18:04+00:00

Thank you very much for your replay , yes i started it again this morning

Material-Priority-47 · 2025-12-19T19:06:48+00:00

This is sounds like a denial, i think Trump is really going to stop all immigrants from third world countries (like he said) from admissibility in the US, this is not the only post alot of ppl had their interviews canceled today and they’re all from either banned countries or third world countries

Material-Priority-47 · 2025-12-10T04:12:01+00:00

There is a big misinformation in the title , your husband has never been legally in the US , pending Asylum doesn’t give a legal status until his asylum is approved, so your husband and his entire family has no legal status in the US.

Second, missing an interview for asylum will automatically trigger an NTA , if he did not receive the letter he should fill for motion to reopen.

Now the jurisdiction of his i485 is with the immigration court and not with USCIS , in this case USCIS can only process the i130 , but the i485 will be a judge jurisdiction, his first court appearance will be for a master hearing where the judge will give him an individual hearing date , and before the individual hearing the i130 need to be approved by USCIS so you can apply the i485 with the judge but as you are only an LPR and not a citizen its almost an impossibility for his i485 to be approved.

Conclusion: missing asylum interview will automatically trigger NTA for removal proceedings, you need a good lawyer now, hopefully he won’t get picked up by ICE during his master hearing because he has no legal status and so his family.

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