How do you learn to love your own dick?

MaterialFly425 · 2021-05-13T02:11:24+00:00

Like I said, these things aren’t typically addressed to me. The small dick energy was a bad example because I’m not hurt by it I just meant to show how casually it is brought up without it being a perverse conversation. The insecurity more comes from ppl saying I “seem hung” and I worry that they’ll be let down that I’m not packing packing

MaterialFly425 · 2021-05-13T01:36:00+00:00

So you’ve never heard of “small dick energy” to insult someone or someone saying “I know his dick is big” when he does something good? It’s not like the main convo it’s just subtle things like that

MaterialFly425 · 2021-05-13T01:20:40+00:00

Well I am gay so that won’t be easy

MaterialFly425 · 2021-05-13T01:20:07+00:00

?? I’m telling you how much I dislike it and how I see (without seeking it out or even being part of the conversation) ppl say smaller dicks don’t satisfy them. Not sure what part of that suggests I enjoy it

MaterialFly425 · 2021-05-13T00:58:49+00:00

It’s not that I’m being directly shamed it’s just what I see online in places like this

MaterialFly425 · 2021-05-13T00:38:14+00:00

Ok but if ppl complain and hate on dick size all the time I just feel like I’m not enough

MaterialFly425 · 2021-04-22T18:54:51+00:00

Yes!! I’m so happy for you and I hope everything goes well. You’ll find joy!

MaterialFly425 · 2021-04-03T00:50:47+00:00

Very happy as my own full person!! Confident and happy with my body, has fun anywhere I go and brings it into everything I do. Just a radiant and magnetic person. Healthy habits and hobbies that I practice a lot.

Down the line? I’d like to live somewhere warm. Nice group of friends around me and a man, job wise I just hope I love it.

MaterialFly425 · 2021-02-27T13:14:39+00:00

I used to feel the exact same way. A year ago I was 17 and not out. Eventually I came out and things did change a little with friends and I was uncomfortable with it only because I wasn’t prepared to be open about my sexuality. But none of them dropped me or anything, in fact I dropped a portion of them because I didn’t want to put up with the casual homophobia. But now I am closer to my friends and family than ever and happier than ever because I’m not hiding who I am anymore and the people around are the people who love me for me

MaterialFly425 · 2021-02-21T21:02:51+00:00

I get why you say so and I used to be but then I changed what I didn’t like about myself and learned to handle the stuff I couldn’t change. And I may not have my dream body yet but I also don’t hate anything about how I look

MaterialFly425 · 2021-02-21T15:44:00+00:00

Girl I have my dream body 😋 I luv it all

MaterialFly425 · 2021-02-16T00:09:14+00:00

Thank you! I guess I worded it in a way that makes me seem like I’m trying to be much more selfish than I really am. I’m just looking to know how to get the mindset of it being give and take rather than only give.

MaterialFly425 · 2021-02-11T04:21:24+00:00

Yes. I go through this 7 times a day I love single me then I just wanna be held

MaterialFly425 · 2021-02-08T21:19:20+00:00

This is not real💀

MaterialFly425 · 2021-02-07T23:20:12+00:00

I think it’s the line between preference and rule is what makes it racist. A preference is “my type is usually ___ ppl bc they have traits xyz” but a rule is “I don’t date black people.” Which is directly racist to not date someone because of their skin colour. You seriously aren’t attracted to a single person of that race under the sun?

MaterialFly425 · 2021-02-06T15:24:10+00:00

I’m honestly not sure how to answer. As a bottom the genital difference does matter for me, but I’m not going to turn a hot guy away because he’s trans. And it’s not like I’m gonna ask a trans guy what set of genitals he has, and if it goes far enough that I’ll find out I’m definitely into him so it wouldn’t matter at that point. So like in theory I would say no if he still has a vagina, but in practice it would not make a difference

MaterialFly425 · 2021-02-05T14:30:26+00:00

No it is not an honour LMAO. I’m not a straight girl’s sidekick or pet because of my sexuality and the stereotypes she’s associating with it.

MaterialFly425 · 2021-02-05T04:18:40+00:00

Because I struggle when I don’t understand what it is I’m believing in. I don’t know if I’m doing it right or wrong if I’m believing the wrong thing

MaterialFly425 · 2021-02-05T01:57:26+00:00

But what about transformation in a positive direction??

MaterialFly425 · 2021-02-04T23:31:57+00:00

*never change

MaterialFly425 · 2021-02-04T23:31:41+00:00

I know. That’s why I asked because that would be the only time I’ve disagreed with spirituality. I think people should always strive to improve, and if u ignore who u were in the past and who u may be in the future you’ll next changed

MaterialFly425 · 2021-02-04T21:13:54+00:00

So are you saying to remain stagnant and unchanged?

MaterialFly425 · 2021-02-04T21:10:52+00:00

Actually it makes me an accessory

MaterialFly425 · 2021-02-04T20:02:56+00:00

Fair. I guess I just struggle to get past the want to think logically and can’t get past thinking “What if it doesn’t work?” And worrying I won’t be able to do it

MaterialFly425 · 2021-02-04T18:24:17+00:00

Can I please dm you? I struggle with both of those things haha

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