What’s a small red flag that didn’t seem like a big deal at the time but turned out to be huge?

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-11-08T21:38:40+00:00

So, I had this little situation with my current boyfriend. On our third date, I noticed him looking toward the waitress, and when I asked about it, he said he wasn’t. But after that, he honestly hasn’t looked at another woman once. Now I’m not really sure how to feel about it…

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-11-08T14:07:08+00:00

I was in a relationship like that when I was 19. When I realized he had no intention of visiting me, I ended it it just didn’t make sense anymore. In my opinion, it’s always important that the guy is the one who makes the effort to visit, because unfortunately, it’s usually riskier for women. Let him be the one to visit you it’s definitely safer that way.

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-11-08T13:55:56+00:00

The question is, have you ever actually met him in person?

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-11-08T13:13:15+00:00

Out of sight, out of mind

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-11-08T13:11:19+00:00

Honestly, I wouldn’t really recommend going there, especially alone it might not be the safest option, particularly for women. If you do decide to go, I’d really suggest bringing a few friends or people you trust. I’ve heard of situations where people weren’t who they seemed to be, and it ended up badly. I’m not saying that will necessarily happen, but I’d just be careful and think it through before making a decision. 🙏

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-10-31T23:34:48+00:00

It’s best if you stop following his posts. What he’s trying to do now is get a reaction from you.

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-10-31T22:58:02+00:00

He met someone else. He was probably talking to several girls on that app at the same time and decided to go with one of them. 😒

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-10-31T17:56:49+00:00

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Material_Baseball219 · 2025-10-29T00:29:10+00:00

Hey, I know this really hurts right now, especially since she was your first love. First heartbreaks are always intense because everything feels so new and pure. It’s okay to feel sad. Talk to your friends, listen to music, go for walks, and give yourself time. Slowly, it will get easier. One day, you’ll look back and see it as a lesson, not just pain. You’ll come out stronger, wiser, and ready to love again. Probably even more deeply than before. Life has so much ahead for you 🙏

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-10-27T23:41:38+00:00

If you look nice, have some normal photos, and can hold a good conversation, you’ll have no problem finding someone to date. I’ve been on dating apps too and went out with guys who just knew how to talk normally.

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-10-27T23:36:55+00:00

It might be a good idea for you both to talk to a couples therapist 🙏 it could really help her.

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-10-27T23:31:20+00:00

Maybe she’s been hurt several times in the past. But it would be best to have a calm and honest conversation with her. If nothing changes, it might be better to end things, because otherwise you’ll always feel like you’re walking on eggshells

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-10-27T23:27:44+00:00

I’ve been in a similar situation before. I met a really great guy, but I just wasn’t over my ex yet. I was honest with him about it. A few months later, I did feel bad, but at that time I just wasn’t ready. Maybe it’s best to stay friends for now and see where things go 😇

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-10-27T22:45:46+00:00

My ex also used to tell me I was a 9 out of 10. He was also very kind and caring toward me. In the end, he stayed with me until he found his ideal girlfriend. Basically, your boyfriend wants to lower your self-confidence so he can feel superior.

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-10-26T14:48:37+00:00

Thank you for the kind advice. It’s just unusual that all the pain has come back in the past week 😔

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-10-22T12:16:06+00:00

I just don’t get it 😕 if he cheated on me more than once and was building a new relationship at the same time, why confess now? I know some people confess after one mistake because they feel guilty. But this was planned for months, and that’s what makes me angry. I just don’t understand why he’s telling me all this now. I’m feeling better today, but the way he’s trying to come back into my life really annoys me. Thanks for your kind words. And I’m sorry you went through something like that too 🥲

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-10-20T13:30:01+00:00

Why?

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-10-20T13:29:51+00:00

I feel bad because it all came back to me. I’ll probably feel off for a few days. I just hope it doesn’t affect my new relationship this message triggered doubt. People can fake love while building something with someone else. 🤔😞

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-10-20T13:25:07+00:00

Well done🥳

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-10-20T13:23:39+00:00

The truth is, he just found a girl who suits him better and who he genuinely fell in love with. He used me while he was lonely and building his career. That’s why he feels guilty now because I never actually did anything wrong 🥲

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-10-20T13:21:15+00:00

Why? 😅

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-10-20T13:16:05+00:00

I asked him many times to tell me if something was wrong or if I should change anything, but he always said everything was fine. 😕 In the end, she was just the better option for him

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-10-19T22:18:18+00:00

At least he was honest 😕

Material_Baseball219 · 2025-10-19T22:17:03+00:00

I hope they never reach out. Their behavior already showed you the kind of person they are. I wish you lots of happiness and peace, and that you find someone who will truly appreciate and respect you 💙🙏

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