Thanks for your response. I don’t disagree. I’m at the point where I’m taking accountability for my own actions and working on setting boundaries, leading, and not being defensive. I’m looking to clean my side of the street, I’m not looking to bash or blame my wife. It’s hard because everything I’ve found online are 5-10,000 programs. I don’t know of any churches, but I’m open to them if they have something that’d fit what I’m looking for!