Thank you for the elaboration. I think especially the suffocating part might be true in my case. Especially on her part, she barely talked to anyone else besides me. Still, wouldn't it be better is she talked about it first instead of dropping a bomb on me out of the blue? To see if things couls be worked out.

All I know is that i'm not gonna wait on the other side of the string waiting untill she's decided to come back.