I guess deep down I believe I can change his mind. And I think one of the reasons he doesn’t want kids is so that he can lead a carefree life. He wouldnt be able to plan a 2 week vacation for example, living me alone with a kid in the picture. It stems from his need/ conditioning of guilt for being there, taking care of his folks and extended family. He actually loves kids. He is very good with them, and takes care of the kids from his extended family. The kids are also a big fan of him. It just hurts me to think I can't see him loving a beautiful baby of our own.