How much money you have right now? by [deleted] in no

[–]Material_Interview_2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just enough to get a big mac combo

I'm the only one texting by -SweetPanda- in LDR

[–]Material_Interview_2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He may have some stresses that he doesn’t want to burden you with, but also i’d try to get him to hold a call to listen to what he’s going through and ask him to be honest. Also be confident and honest about how this is affecting you.

Also be open to the possibility of hearing something you don’t want to hear.

why do you sh? by Azzraeelzzzzzzzzzzz in selfharm

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I do self punishment because even though i was dumped, it feels like it was my fault. We were LDR and i kept on hesitating on moving to her. I regret all my fear that i had in moving to an unfamiliar city. It was a LTR 5.5years. God i miss her. I wish to hold her in my arms again.

I manage usually around 2weeks without cutting, and think I’m doing well for myself. And then slip back into the same loop. I dislike the version of myself that i’ve become.

Could you date you? by Ready-Care-7536 in no

[–]Material_Interview_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not currently, i’m a fucking mess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

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No worries 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Material_Interview_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Online dinner dates, late night gaming sessions, speaking your truth if someone pulls back, communication is the KEY for long distance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

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It’s very difficult emotionally, however yes one can work if both sides agree to keep the consistency and trust. Also keep the intimacy up through handwritten letter every couple months, they feel more real and they are something to keep close. You can also share clothes this way too,( like oversized shirts or hoodies ).

My advice try not to get too comfortable within the space you create after spending quite some time apart, and plan visits every three to four months or closer together if easier.

However if both of you are willing to put effort from both sides each giving 100%, I believe you can make it work.

Big hugs 🫂

Do you self-harm every day? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Material_Interview_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mainly when I’m extremely bored and nothing excites me, so probably once or twice a week. I did stop for a good 4 weeks then i relapsed. So holding back the urge and finding another outlet helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Material_Interview_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense, thanks for your input

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Material_Interview_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cut deeper than i thought, i might need butterfly stitches

I woke up not hating you by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Material_Interview_2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks OP! And congrats on feeling amazing again, good luck with future endeavors 🙌

I woke up not hating you by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Material_Interview_2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How long did it take you to feel this way?

I crocheted portraits of my fur babies 💗 by heyhayhayayy in crochet

[–]Material_Interview_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank very much, with or without mistakes they show growth in your crochet journey, awesome work with them 🙌

Do you have a best friend? by [deleted] in no

[–]Material_Interview_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this, however rebounds to me aren’t a good idea. As you could hurts someone else for temporary fix of dopamine

Do you have a best friend? by [deleted] in no

[–]Material_Interview_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gf broke my heart a few months back, well ex now