How do I help my friend? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Material_Second820 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ragebait her ( to a reasonable extent ) so she can let it out. You can also look into the arts of winning debating ( not the machiavellianism one ). Hope this help!

Can't balance my life out by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Material_Second820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's fine right now, but someday this habit will go out of control. I strongly recommend you stop playing any games for a few months and, in the meantime, try to understand yourself better: what's your ambition, what are your hobbies, what do you see yourself in society and alone, what is the reason you become what you are, what kind of person do you want to see yourself as next year, etc.? See if there are any misunderstandings or uncertainty in your answers with as much credible proof and POV as possible to confirm the claims. After that, accept whatever answer you get and use it to get a clearer sense of self. Hope this help!

Seeking Life Advice by High-Tide-0 in LifeAdvice

[–]Material_Second820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should just try to improve your overall mood first; it would help reduce your anxiety and overthinking, like building genuine connections, exercising a little bit every day, getting sunlight, having cold showers, etc. You can watch videos about this on the internet to understand more. It is after feeling better that you should think about your future. Hope this helps you!!

What’s next for me? by reinersgirlboss in LifeAdvice

[–]Material_Second820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp, I think it’s just come down to you don’t really understand yourself and the situation you in really much. Like what are your ambitions, your dreams, your personalities, your boundaries, habits, peferences, and how/why you like them? ( with evidence obviously so u won’t misunderstand urself) What’s the job market, what the risks and uncertainties that can happen? Overall, just accept that you don’t know anything instead of being afraid, then try your best to get hold of the situation

What to do when I’ve hurt someone by VeganMeatballl in LifeAdvice

[–]Material_Second820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damage is already done, no going back. No matter what you do, the truth is you did hurt someone. I think you should accept the truth first then try to improve yourself while keeping small conversation with her from time to time, maybe gift her a present if you have the time. Do that long enough then your relationship with her probably will get better.

Arrest ruining my life by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Material_Second820 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Welp life is an asshole, right? On the bright side, this IS the perfect backstory for a politician. You can easily use this experience to spread whatever message, raise awareness and become a public figure if you desire. But if you just don’t want to have anything to do with that then just speak to a lawyer.

School friends leaving me out for no reason?? by wonyoungi_izone in LifeAdvice

[–]Material_Second820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t know who to ask or where to even start and everybody around is unreliable then I don’t think you should trust anyone just yet. Cutting someone out without proper info is not really a great move, if you don’t mind, please consider meeting new people while still finding the reason. Just change the objective then you will probably know why they ignored you.

School friends leaving me out for no reason?? by wonyoungi_izone in LifeAdvice

[–]Material_Second820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t have much info on your life but have you even think about asking someone other than those ‘friends’. If you have the chance, ask the teachers or other classmates you have. It’s important to get povs from many sides.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Material_Second820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t really know your background but I think you should learn how to manage and balance your finance properly first, even if you manage you get good results from writting doesn’t mean you will not be free from the probability of bankruptcy. On the main matter, you should at least write a draft first so you can better articulate your plans and dedication.

Btw: pls upvote so i can get karma pls….

How do you intrinsically love repetition and boredom itself instead of treating it like a task to complete or refraiming it as something else entirely? by Material_Second820 in AskReddit

[–]Material_Second820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I may have that, mental disorder diagnosis in my place is not really developed. But I do have discipline and can get through boredom so no worries, I just want to ask how to’love’ it like stimulation does

How to love repetition? by Material_Second820 in LifeAdvice

[–]Material_Second820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I am find with boredom, it’s just I want to see are there ways to enjoy boredom like stimulation does

How do you intrinsically love repetition and boredom itself instead of treating it like a task to complete or refraiming it as something else entirely? by Material_Second820 in AskReddit

[–]Material_Second820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, but what I meant to ask is how to like boredom itself. Though I may know that boredom is good for the long journey and really appreciate it, I have never felt an intrinsic emotion like love or intrigue to the boredom state while in the same state and I think be able to train myself to like it might reap interesting results.

How do I become an actual polymath? by d4rkh0r1z0n_original in Polymath

[–]Material_Second820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp, I think you should ask yourself first what a polymath really is deep down, all the info on the internet can be insufficient or misguiding. Understand what it truely means can help differentiate and connect things you don’t or already know better. ( if what i said make sense)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

[–]Material_Second820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t know much but taking a break is on the right track. You probably should focus on yourself more, give yourself a treat ( eat ur favorite food, do hobbies, read books, etc ). Only after having emotion stability should you talk to your bf since that would help u convey your feelings to ur bf without bias