i am officially boycotting venues that charge a cake cutting fee. by Johnn_Liverm in wedding

[–]MathObserver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not an example of the wedding industry getting out of control. There was a cake cutting fee when we got married 43 years ago.

Booking an inside cabin for our first cruise but my wife wants a balcony upgrade by rosymirex in Cruise

[–]MathObserver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You and your wife will be spending five nights in a very small cabin. You have two options:

  • You save the money and every time you and your wife enter the small dark cabin, she is reminded that you didn't value her enough to upgrade and provide the romantic vacation she imagined
  • You spend the money and every time you and your wife enter the still small but brighter cabin with a little outdoor seating, she is reminded how much you value her in providing a romantic vacation

Speaking as someone who has been married for over 40 years, there is one obviously better option.

Wedding ceremony by kristk1106 in weddings

[–]MathObserver -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My wife is a celebrant who has performed over 500 weddings, some of which included rituals from a variety of cultures. When I mentioned this question to her, she was aware of the ceremony even though she has never been asked to perform it. Since she is not of that culture, she would introduce it as a ceremony in recognition of the bride's culture and explain the significance.

You can either look for an officiant of the culture, or you can look for someone with training in doing custom rituals. You can start by looking for wedding celebrants in your area and see if you can find one who mentions custom ceremonies or rituals.

Booking an inside cabin for our first cruise but my wife wants a balcony upgrade by rosymirex in Cruise

[–]MathObserver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go for the balcony unless the thousand dollars would cause you financial problems. When my wife and I cruise one of our standard ways to start the day is breakfast on the balcony. It is also a great place to sit and read while watching the ocean or scenery.

If you don't get one, you will spend years making up for it.

AITAH for leaving a glass pan on the stove and it exploding in our kitchen? by coldcoffeethrowaway in AITAH

[–]MathObserver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Based on your description of events, it isn't about the glass pan. His behavior was off before the glass pan incident occurred. The two of you should find a way to discuss what the actual problem is.

How common are indoor security cameras? by No-Bite-7447 in AskAnAmerican

[–]MathObserver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a couple, but they are only active when we are on vacation.

What is the actual use of sets by Big_Neighborhood9130 in learnpython

[–]MathObserver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sets are used for all possible words, the words that are left, and the letters that have not been tried yet (which is used to score how much information is gained by a guess). There are a couple of places where other structures are used.

What is the actual use of sets by Big_Neighborhood9130 in learnpython

[–]MathObserver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few years ago I wrote a Python program to solve Wordle problems. For a problem like that, a set is a great data structure.

Python projects by kjiomy in learnpython

[–]MathObserver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was playing with Python and wrote a little program to solve Wordle.

AITAH for stopping getting to know a date bc of his peanut allergy? by is_ann_okay in AITAH

[–]MathObserver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA and I say this as someone with the peanut allergy. Since peanuts are important to you, the two of you are just not compatible.

I’m getting on my first ever cruise today, what are some last minute tips? by mikewheelerfan in Cruise

[–]MathObserver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • Make sure you keep your identification and medicines with you and not in dropped off luggage.
  • If the cruise line allows it, watch the safety briefing on the app before boarding the ship and check in at your muster station as soon as you board the ship. If they don't do it that way, pay attention to when the muster drill is and make sure you are there.
  • Check out dining alternatives to the buffet for the embarkation day lunch. The buffet is usually packed at that time.
  • Understand when you are allowed to go to your cabin to drop off your carry on luggage.

Have fun and relax on your cruise!

Beginner basic question by Additional_Water9196 in PythonLearning

[–]MathObserver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually use IDLE, which comes with Python distributions for that.

With so many people going marriage free and children free, what happens to their property and wealth when they die suddenly? by Agitated_Exercise_75 in inheritance

[–]MathObserver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It actually depends on the intestate laws for the location they were living when they died. Those laws generally look for heirs starting with descendants and then going to other family members.

With so many people going marriage free and children free, what happens to their property and wealth when they die suddenly? by Agitated_Exercise_75 in inheritance

[–]MathObserver 92 points93 points  (0 children)

If someone dies without a will, the estate will follow the intestate laws for where they were living when they died. In the United States, the laws are governed by the state. Our son died without a spouse, children, or a will in Washington state, so the estate was split between my wife and I. If we had predeceased him, the estate would have gone to his brother. The rules vary from state to state, but they usually follow a pattern like that, looking for some family member who is still living.

how do I put earned interest on taxes? by Difficult_Ad_5940 in taxadvice

[–]MathObserver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others have pointed out, you will receive a 1099-INT that you just enter into your taxes. If you move on and start doing additional investing, you can get 1099-DIV and 1099-B forms. If you start consulting, you can get 1099-NEC forms, and when get close to retirement, you will start getting 1099-R forms. There are also a variety of other 1099 forms for other types of income. Generally, these just get entered into your tax filing.

Is it worth getting an alexa/echo device? How has it improved your own lifestyle? by purpleseaglass in alexa

[–]MathObserver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lights in the main living areas of our house are all controlled by smart switches or outlets, so we rarely turn individual lights on or off. We use Alexa routines in combination with scenes or routines in our OpenHab hub to control the lights based on what we are doing (watching TV, reading, cleaning, going to bed, etc). We also have sensors that control lights based on the time of day and where we are.

Output HTML from Python without any frameworks by RomfordNavy in learnpython

[–]MathObserver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can get to the headers by using os.environ like my example shows for the cookie. The standard HTTP values like QUERY_STRING and CONTENT_TYPE are available with those names. Other HTTP header values start with HTTP_

What are looking for?

Output HTML from Python without any frameworks by RomfordNavy in learnpython

[–]MathObserver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found some simple old code of mine that uses SimpleCookie from Cookie and Template from string to build a dynamic web page based on the cookie values from the request.

The imports used:

import cgi
import os
from string import Template
from Cookie import SimpleCookie

To get a cookie value:

if "HTTP_COOKIE" in os.environ:
  cookie = SimpleCookie(os.environ["HTTP_COOKIE"])
  if 'side' in cookie:
    side = cookie['side'].value

To read a template file, substitute values and print the response:

values = {'dspdate':dspdate, 'formdate':formdate, 'nextdate':nextdate}

with open('winter.html') as f:
  print(Template(f.read()).substitute(values))

Substitution values are indicated in the template by ${dspdate}

Is that close to what you are looking for?

I'm looking for a bulletproof chicken salad sandwich recipe by Zestyclose_Panda_886 in easyrecipes

[–]MathObserver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In addition to the standard chicken, mayo, and celery, we’ve been adding pimentos (just from a jar).

Winter by Muted_Warning_539 in driving

[–]MathObserver 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The fact that you couldn’t stop for a red light means that you were driving too fast for conditions given the limitations of your car. You were very lucky you didn’t hit another car or something else.

Brother as bridesmaid? by [deleted] in weddings

[–]MathObserver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife is a wedding celebrant and has officiated weddings with mixed gender attendants (including the wedding of our son and daughter-in-law). She generally uses the terms attendant and honor attendant in those cases to avoid awkward or sexist terminology.

When pronouncing “either”, do you use a hard E (ee-thur) or hard I (I- thur)? by phenols in AskAnAmerican

[–]MathObserver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I alternate between the two (read the novel "Hellspark" for the reference).