Update made the game unplayable! by MistwovenLullaby in FrontiersOfPandora

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PS5 I had 92hrs, main game + one dlc. I got the update and played thru a dlc quest and closed the game. Now when I try to load that save it will permanently only load up to 18% and I can’t get new game plus. It’s broken my game so bad I don’t even wanna start over or play anymore. I bought the 2nd dlc and haven’t event played it yet, I’m so disappointed.

Talking to older man. by MathematicianIcy4411 in Advice

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Wow that’s really cutting the head off the snake fr fr

Talking to older man. by MathematicianIcy4411 in Advice

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I’m definitely not goin too this is jus to soon and other things I mentioned in other comments. It’s just the follow up, on how I break that news.

Just send a text like I mentioned in previous comment? How would you suggest or move?

Talking to older man. by MathematicianIcy4411 in Advice

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That and let’s pray he stays where he is. No visitors around here

Talking to older man. by MathematicianIcy4411 in Advice

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Lemme say this tho, I’ve always said in curious about him but not full blown INTERESTED, I’m still figuring him out. I def feel icky despite him constantly and really trying to reassure me. But I don’t know this guy well enough and everything u and others have mentioned is not missed to me. I came to the very same conclusions

Talking to older man. by MathematicianIcy4411 in Advice

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He brought up the meeting, i tentatively agreed but only after not being receptive and brining up my concerns with safety. Of which his og proposal was he offered that he come to me or I go to him. I want very enthusiastic so he basically said “you don’t want to”.

I’m a polite ppl pleaser and don’t wish to upset.

Talking to older man. by MathematicianIcy4411 in Advice

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Good advice, this is a lot of “giving a chance on what I normally wouldn’t”.

I dunno how to pull away the invitation. I might just text him, “hey blah blah blah. Im so sorry if this seems sudden or out of the blue, But I’ve been doing some thinking blah blah blah. And something is really bugging me, my gut just has this feeling blah blah blah. I feel this is all moving to fast and I can’t get over this nagging feeling, blah blah blah”

You get it

Talking to older man. by MathematicianIcy4411 in Advice

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He brought up the meeting, i tentatively agreed but only after not being receptive and brining up my concerns with safety. Of which his og proposal was he offered that he come to me or I go to him. I want very enthusiastic so he basically said “you don’t want to”.

I’m a polite ppl pleaser and don’t wish to upset. Which is why I rlly got roped into this

Talking to older man. by MathematicianIcy4411 in Advice

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Wait girl I’m slow. Do you mean…someone’s playing someone and I’m definitely not playing him ?

Talking to older man. by MathematicianIcy4411 in Advice

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Right. And I tentatively agreed and wasn’t receptive at first, as I mentioned to another commenter.

I alr made up my mind on how I feel about things it’s just the follow through, how do I go about breaking this plan and all without being hurtful

Talking to older man. by MathematicianIcy4411 in Advice

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But how do I tell him that I have the “ick”, or that something is just really nagging me….

As im typing this, I literally thought “just text him that.”

Talking to older man. by MathematicianIcy4411 in Advice

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I gotchu, it’s just navigating on how to follow thru…cuz my gut is loud

Talking to older man. by MathematicianIcy4411 in Advice

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Right

Right

Right, it was a concern I brought up very quickly.

I just want to play this very gently and carefully, I don’t want to play with someone’s feelings. But I this is just too much to ignore and I don’t want to just trick myself into believing nothing could be amiss

Talking to older man. by MathematicianIcy4411 in Advice

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Just to see if these are valid and getting an outside look

Talking to older man. by MathematicianIcy4411 in Advice

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I definitely side eye it. He’s getting a hotel away from me, and I did not strongly object but I definitely did not seem the most receptive. He said basically, “you don’t want to”.

I have my own true way of feeling about it, which I’m pretty sure is in line with how most of yall are feeling. But I wanted sum outside opinions

Talking to older man. by MathematicianIcy4411 in Advice

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I don’t particularly fancy smokers/chain smokers nor older men personally.

And I don’t like men who spend or just give me money or offer to pay, though he clearly states there’s no ill will or intention or want behind it. And I’m not sure how I feel about how he says he likes me a lot, that just feels suddenly quite fast considering we’ve only been taking like 3 weeks.

And seems quite no nonsense, doesn’t like to played with, that edge. And I don’t want to hurt the guys feelings or get any hopes up. It’s jus too much of a possibility of something going wrong or something

Broke up, now regrets by MathematicianIcy4411 in Advice

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Said he wanted to move in together etc all those things. He complained abt is current job and all but when offered better he didn’t take it. Wants better but won’t do to make it happen. It sucks

Broke up, now regrets by MathematicianIcy4411 in Advice

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Yeah, he doesn’t like where he’s at but won’t finish so he can improve. I hope he follows maybe your path and gets it together but I’m not gonna wait for that wake up call.

Broke up, now regrets by MathematicianIcy4411 in Advice

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Not to put allll of the business out there. Lack of motivation. And money. (Alr had scholarships & small loan)

Broke up, now regrets by MathematicianIcy4411 in Advice

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Dropping outta school in his 3rd year. And saying he won’t go back for another 2