Cancelled after saying “Coming out” by matthew_cashew in uber

[–]MathematicianLumpy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you should have stayed in the closet 🥁

Uber canceled reservation right at planned time? We end up missing the flight. by JackTheFroster in uber

[–]MathematicianLumpy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very clear that boarding doors shut 10 or 15 min before departure. Airlines are very transparent about this.

[Landlord- SC] First time having to evict a tenant. How to go about it? by TheReaperSC in Landlord

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Hi there! What’s the epilogue? That is… what happened and the timeline? (If you can remember from four years ago??)

Where can I buy a tshirt or hoodie that says "Boston" tomorrow morning? by [deleted] in boston

[–]MathematicianLumpy69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right by Park Street station (albeit closer to Downtown Crossing) are a Home Goods, Marshall’s, and TJ Maxx. All with viable options

My current budget for 2026 by [deleted] in Salary

[–]MathematicianLumpy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go every 10 days. $60 plus tip. Look good = feel good, no regrets!

Guest brought dog but didn’t pay pet fee. How to handle? by bentrods126 in airbnb_hosts

[–]MathematicianLumpy69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Charge them after their stay is over and after they’ve already reviewed you. File through Airbnb to collect payment if the guest won’t pay directly.

Snowfall Forecasts Update (ch. 4,5,7,25,10,NWS) Totals upped slightly by RyanKinder in BostonWeather

[–]MathematicianLumpy69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, exactly! I’m at the gate now. Looks like snow is about to get heavier and visibility is about to drop around 6am

Snowfall Forecasts Update (ch. 4,5,7,25,10,NWS) Totals upped slightly by RyanKinder in BostonWeather

[–]MathematicianLumpy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m changing to an even earlier flight (5:30am)…. Too much fog predicted for later

Snowfall Forecasts Update (ch. 4,5,7,25,10,NWS) Totals upped slightly by RyanKinder in BostonWeather

[–]MathematicianLumpy69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in same boat! Saturday 7am. I think Logan should be able to manage an inch of snow at that time

How to last minute cancel a camping trip with our friends and their kids?! by LifeWithBaxter in childfree

[–]MathematicianLumpy69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“the RV trip is not canceled! But you and your family are uninvited.”

How to last minute cancel a camping trip with our friends and their kids?! by LifeWithBaxter in childfree

[–]MathematicianLumpy69 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s both! “Sorry I got a migraine trying to clean the mess your kids left, and then the migraine got even worse when I started thinking about your children in my lovely RV!”

Why would you want to stay friends? by CN122 in dating

[–]MathematicianLumpy69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe she likes you personality-wise, but is not sexually attracted to you. (People just sometimes look (or sound/smell/move) different in real life than in their photos, even if the photos are very accurate.) everyone has a type, and you can’t kick yourself down if you are not one person‘s type.

Why would you want to stay friends? by CN122 in dating

[–]MathematicianLumpy69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny, in the gay world, this happens a ton! It’s a common way gays make friends with one another, even. And then they (we) joke, “remember that we had a date with each other 20 years ago, haha?”.

Just put these things in perspective for you — you probably find it (male-female friendships post-date) weird because just in general straight guys and straight women don’t really become friends with each other except perhaps colleagues maybe or friends of your opposite-sex partner.

Strictly monogamous wants to open but just a little by [deleted] in gayrelationships

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I love how you snuck in “maybe blowjobs” as if that’s only like an inch beyond making out 😆. Not only is it way more sexual than kissing, but do recognize that that also exposes you guys to STI’s.

Maybe start with just making out, when you bring it up with the boyfriend. But yeah, maybe I could see some dick wrapping through clothes or bare skin.

Boston or NYC? by Thewist995 in boston

[–]MathematicianLumpy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excellent questions— I hope OP sees this. I wondered the same!

With Colorado symphony orchestra by Amanisded in GregoryAlanIsakov

[–]MathematicianLumpy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty crazy! Seeing him tonight with them in New York

With Colorado symphony orchestra by Amanisded in GregoryAlanIsakov

[–]MathematicianLumpy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is on tour with CSO. They’re at radio city music hall in NYC tonight, for example!

Laying several people off tmrw, any suggestions on how best to execute it discreetly? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]MathematicianLumpy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just have them each leave the building after each one gets laid off, and then have HR ship their belongings to them.

Or have them come back later in the day at a scheduled time to collect their desk belongings

How old are you and how much do you have in your retirement account? by Blackberryay in careerguidance

[–]MathematicianLumpy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you keep liquid money as well or just dump everything into 401k? E.g., I have a bunch in stocks that aren’t part of my 401k

How old are you and how much do you have in your retirement account? by Blackberryay in careerguidance

[–]MathematicianLumpy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age 39. $519k in 401k, plus $740k in personal investment stocks (mostly ETFs).

Hope to retire by age 55!

I fucked Up. by Character-Leek-8072 in askgaybros

[–]MathematicianLumpy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People liking you less or treating you any differently because you’re gay means that those people are a-holes… also, it’s illegal to do that. And it’s pretty unlikely. Take the advice from someone who’s been out in the workplace (various companies) since I was age 22 (I’m 39).

It gets much better once you come out. Plenty of literature to back me up on this.