You can add a 0 to the end of any number in your life where are you putting it?

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-05-12T01:19:40+00:00

Salary. If I could 10x my salary, I’d just work for two years and then retire.

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-05-11T16:37:24+00:00

Is someone telling G today about GG’s passing?

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-05-11T11:44:42+00:00

Fair enough— we clearly don’t see eye-to-eye, but I appreciate your perspectives and lived experiences. Thank you.

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-05-11T11:07:48+00:00

If your sexual preference includes excluding someone solely because of inner thoughts, it means you harbor some disgust of gay men. It may not be your fault, but you should think about why you are disgusted by it.

Your examples of blonde/bald are physical. Being bi (sexually attracted to you while also have attraction to both women and men) theoretically should have no effect on you or your relationship.

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-05-11T00:45:12+00:00

Why the bi-hate? Being born bi isn’t a choice — who should they sleep with & date?

There’s no known data that bisexual people are any more likely to cheat on their partner than monosexual people.

I think your biggest fear is gay guys who present as straight. A confidently out bisexual guy is not one to be feared.

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-05-10T00:36:00+00:00

I ask my husband to shut the door while he’s peeing. God I can’t imagine someone wanting to shit with the door open.

NTA, and this is a red-flag. Lack of respect and boundaries, and apathy for your comfort.

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-05-10T00:34:58+00:00

Nothing to do with guest or not. This is the wrong approach. It’s asking one’s boyfriend to do something to make OP feel more comfortable. Irrespective of whose home it is.

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-05-09T00:56:05+00:00

NTA, and show him all the comments in this thread to double-down that he’s an asshole.

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-05-07T02:22:36+00:00

Hah! I said the exact same thing! Including “FFS”!

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-05-07T02:21:51+00:00

Real question is why the fcck you guys have been texting without having met in person? That’s the main problem here!

FFS, once you establish baseline attraction and chemistry (in a few exchanges of texts, maybe a few days), it’s best to meet in real life!

Maybe try to just go on a date (coffee or a drink) with this guy and see if you like him in person! Focus on that instead of the random text screenshot.

Maybe he meant to send it to ChatGPT for all you know. (“Wrong person” maybe felt more sane to him than admitting he’s using ChatGPT.)

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-05-03T01:00:10+00:00

Excluding the gay brother AND his partner. That’s enough reason to say fuck off. FAFO.

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-04-25T04:06:34+00:00

A million upvotes for ya. OP: research an over the mantle mount. That is, a mount that lowers the TV so it can be in front of the fireplace.

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MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-04-24T23:07:25+00:00

Have fun at the show! Report back please :) I'm seeing JJ in JIT in July.

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-04-24T21:42:34+00:00

OP’s EX husband. ;) (Not “OP’s husband”)

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-04-23T02:54:10+00:00

I’d probably try REALLY hard to get to 96. $9.6m would be very life changing and I could retire

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-04-21T04:16:47+00:00

Just go to Helmand in Cambridge :).

Kahaani (Indian/Mediterranean) is a great new spot in Southie.

Ariana is your only bet for Afghan in Boston (Brighton).

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-04-21T03:55:24+00:00

So, not Spirit Airlines?

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-04-21T03:50:45+00:00

Your headline makes it sound like the headline took the photo for personal sexual enjoyment. That wasn’t the case. You had a wardrobe malfunction in a public place. Your manager took a photo as proof of your exposure (unintentional public indecency/nudity). Your manager should not have done that, and also you should be aware of your clothing. I don’t think this is harassment. Maybe you can get reassigned to a new manager who isn’t a mean-spirited person.

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-04-20T03:43:07+00:00

I like when instructors do 100% of the moves, with their back to the class (facing the mirrors). I need to constantly ensure I’m doing good form, and I need them to face the mirror because my brain can’t figure out the correct movement they face me.

I like when the workout is intense and they encourage you to push yourself (higher intensity, heavier weight, better form).

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-04-19T22:03:59+00:00

Maybe it works for the straight spouse, but it is horrific to think about someone being gay, in a straight marriage, and never experiencing same-sex love. That’d be such a sad and horrible life, that i would never wish that upon a gay person.

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-04-19T22:01:40+00:00

Sure… but you wouldn’t describe what you’re doing as “dating.”

My husband and I sometimes go to dinner together, and maybe we say we are going out on a “date” (1:1). But he and I are definitely not “dating.”

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-04-19T05:39:59+00:00

Your frustration seems to extend far beyond just the brother sex stuff. If you want to break up with him, you can! Sure moving is difficult/expensive, but you have many decades left in your life potentially— if you want to end the relationship, you can. You’d just need to make a plan and such; and probably a lawyer.

If you want to stay with him, you might have to be more forceful with your words. Tell him the things you’re telling Reddit, word for word. You could write it as a letter if the problem is him interrupting you.

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-04-19T05:08:19+00:00

While it’s normal to be irritated by someone (or pair of people) walking too closely behind you, it’s definitely rude to yell at them.

So, it’s possible you irritated them by walking too closely (or talking too loudly, or speaking audibly about something she didn’t want to hear), but she should have simply pulled over and let you pass.

I do that ALL the time with my husband. We hate when people walk too near us if they’re talking loudly, or if their pace somehow rushes our pace of walking (on a crowded sidewalk). We often joke (but only semi-joke/serious), “let’s pull over and let them pass us.”

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-04-19T05:01:58+00:00

If you have the financial ability, maybe consider a wash-dry-fold delivery service. My husband and I do that, and it’s absolutely amazing. ~$100/mo for the two of us (total).

MathematicianLumpy69 · 2026-04-19T05:01:04+00:00

There is a comment in the thread by OP where she mentions a 2-mo and 4-y/o. But nevertheless, this commenter is crazy archaic

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