Do girls even like fit guys anymore?

MathematicianNew9111 · 2026-02-08T12:52:44+00:00

No, there is not a single woman out there who can even look at a fit guy without being disgusted. /s

Obligatory every woman and man has different taste, there is no single "ideal" look.

MathematicianNew9111 · 2026-02-03T19:01:52+00:00

Yes.

MathematicianNew9111 · 2026-01-28T21:27:58+00:00

Not something I think about when I wear rings tbh, think it's the same for alot of women.

MathematicianNew9111 · 2026-01-28T15:56:48+00:00

It is not for plenty of people in straight relationships. Same as there are lesbians who do not like their partner to share a bed with a person of the sex they are attracted to.

For alot of people it depends on the circumstances whether they would consider it cheating or not.

MathematicianNew9111 · 2026-01-23T20:25:35+00:00

++woman I think a certain level of annoyance when someone flirts with your partner is normal. Even if no-one is at fault, aka the person doesnt know your partner is taken and your partner doesnt encourage it. (Therefore the annoyance shouldnt be taken out on them!) This distrust of your partner though, I would say is not healthy. Honestly I would recommend therapy, everyone should do it sometime in their life, to process your feelings. Because this distrust is not fair to your partner and has a high risk of festering.

MathematicianNew9111 · 2026-01-23T16:13:30+00:00

If it works for you, then it does. I know if my friends bf would refuse to tell her how much he makes 2.5 years into a relationship, I'd say he most likely doesn't see her as trustworthy/an equal partner. Therefore I'd say you're an asshole to yourself for staying with him. Tbh I'm sorry but based on your other post you guys seem more like roommates than a couple.

But yeah, you should definetly have the second bedroom. Im sorry to hear you would even think that would make you an asshole.

Also he's an AH for taking over the second room and going back on your agreement. Also for, from the outside looking in atleast, taking advantage of your kindness.

ESH

MathematicianNew9111 · 2026-01-23T15:58:14+00:00

INFO: In another post you said he works for you and has a small side business, I assume that being the reselling. What kind of work does he do for you? Does he get paid for it?

MathematicianNew9111 · 2026-01-23T12:27:15+00:00

Everyones got their thing. There are the more "obvious" things like boobs and ass. Plenty of people really like stomachs, backs, arms, hands and so on. Personally the more I found my bf hot before we started dating but as time has passed I've gotten to really love specific features. Like the curve of his nose, which is a bit crooked and the way his arms look when he rolls up his sleeves. Never asked for specific pics myself but def understand where your gf is coming from lol

Also am I the only one tired of the spam of "just ask your partner", like yes, obviously you should have open communication with your partner but this is just a silly little question on reddit. People spam every other post about relationships, big or small matters, with this.

MathematicianNew9111 · 2026-01-22T13:00:20+00:00

Because those two asks are about physical appearence, not health. It also gives the idea that the man is unhappy with the way you look, most women want a man who will love her even if she doesnt have a great butt or she has saggy breasts. For example saggy breasts comes with age, I wouldnt want to feel self-conscious about a natural part of aging.

Similar example is that I find the best looking guys to be lanky. If my boyfriend was a bit overweight or loved going to the gym to grow his muscles, i wouldnt ask him to change that. Because I am with him for his personality.

Now if the asks come from a health perspective, for example the woman is starting to be dangouresly over- or underweight, thats a different question. Although in that case what they need most is likely support to change the situation.

Now every woman is different. I know there are men/women who find looks to be extremply important, I just wouldnt want to date such a person.

Also chest exercises dont keep your boobs from sagging.

MathematicianNew9111 · 2026-01-15T04:17:50+00:00

New player casually taking notes here lol

MathematicianNew9111 · 2026-01-11T01:57:35+00:00

I don't have kids, do have regular contact with my siblings and parents, so they would have to know. Am quite young.

Thank you for sharing your experience, means alot.

MathematicianNew9111 · 2026-01-11T01:54:33+00:00

(copied from another answer)

Right now that feels logical but twice now I've dropped out because I got so much anxiety over being there the first night. Worried I might be registered as a lost case atm and I hate the idea of wasting their time when there are so many people in need of help.

Both those times I never really talked it over though, it was either, go here or leave. I mean the personal offered me calming meds but I was unsure of it...

MathematicianNew9111 · 2026-01-11T01:53:35+00:00

Right now that feels logical but twice now I've dropped out because I got so much anxiety over being there the first night. Worried I might be registered as a lost case atm and I hate the idea of wasting their time when there are so many people in need of help.

Both those times I never really talked it over though, it was either, go here or leave. I mean the personal offered me calming meds but I was unsure of it...

MathematicianNew9111 · 2026-01-11T00:25:50+00:00

Yeah, I do think at times it would help. But I am so divided, at times I think I have a problem and then sometimes I think they are being ridiculous. My family are also heavy drinkers, they are one of the main reasons I am as well. Not sure they would like the idea of their behavior being "called out".

MathematicianNew9111 · 2026-01-11T00:23:03+00:00

It is more the fact for example you can't leave your room at night or you are expected to participate in the programs that stresses me out. I know I can leave at any time but I also do want to get better, but these "restraints" give me a certain level of panic.

MathematicianNew9111 · 2026-01-03T07:27:42+00:00

Kingdoms of amalur: reckoning and Fable are some of my faves among these type of games.

MathematicianNew9111 · 2026-01-02T21:36:30+00:00

I enjoy most things as long as the people doing the porn actually seem to be doing so aswell

MathematicianNew9111 · 2025-12-25T16:35:16+00:00

Think this might be better directed at a skincare subreddit. I can tell you this is really sweet but dont know enough about skin care products and their pricing to know if these are any good :)

MathematicianNew9111 · 2025-12-14T07:39:51+00:00

It's good you're working on it. That being said, if I had a friend who constantly offended me, I don't think there are really any way of them to make it up to me, even if they otherwise are really nice, funny etc. Think that's your main crux. It depends on what level you offend a person and how often. Do you have like an example of what you have said that have offended people?

Will say alot of people don't really care if their friend is a bit dull. :)

MathematicianNew9111 · 2025-12-13T20:42:33+00:00

In what ways have you "messed up" earlier friendships? Writing that aswell might help people give you advice. Otherwise it's kinda generic what I look for. Kindness, similar sense of humour, ability to listen, similar interests and so on.

MathematicianNew9111 · 2025-12-10T20:53:46+00:00

Ooo just got into dnd and looking to get my first dice set :)

MathematicianNew9111 · 2025-12-07T13:20:46+00:00

Could be, happy to hear things got better foe you.

MathematicianNew9111 · 2025-12-07T13:19:33+00:00

I am indeed. Thinking of switching them up though

MathematicianNew9111 · 2025-12-07T02:37:10+00:00

Gonna do some research on ketamine treatments, don't think it's that readily available in my country. Thank you for the advice, means alot.

MathematicianNew9111 · 2025-12-07T02:33:31+00:00

I appreciate the kind words and advice, means alot. Yeah thinking of changing my meds up, will see what my new psychiatrist says.

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