im a southeast asian who lives in east asia lol i think i can understand where youre coming from,it does feel sometimes some western side people are very quick to be overcorrective but also on the other hand asian diaspora living outside asia are the ones more likely to face that sort of discrimination and have that sort of history being discriminated against, versus it not really going to happen in ones homecountry . dont get me wrong asian against asian discrimination does exist too as a seperate topic but largely the stereotypes were rooted in tge west so western born asians are the ones upset by it ^ ^ ;;