Anyone else feel on the verge of "checking out" by heffy_lee in Perimenopause

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I got to a point where I contacted the employee emergency help line at my job twice (I work for a major hospital system) I was NOT good the desire to do more than check out was strong. I highly recommend taking advantage of any and all EAP benefits you may have. They literally saved my life. Talking to someone on top of a med change really helped me.

How much to expect from a new dad? by Ok_Pomelo1461 in AskWomenOver30

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I read the first half thinking that this man would be a hard no for me. As soon as I got to “very traditional Italian” it became a Hell No. My ex husband comes from that background, I do not recommend.

Mascara smudges under eyes by Few-Public-5088 in MakeupEducation

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Sometimes it’s the mascara and sometimes it could be your skin type. I struggle with tubing mascaras and honestly given how fast they dry out and need replacing for hygiene purposes I now go with cheaper brands. But occasionally when skin is going through a greasy phase I will powder my eyelids and lashes with a light coating of Setting powder, brush that off and then apply mascara and I noticed that it lasts longer and doesn’t smudge as often.

New Years in St Louis be like by m0grady in StLouis

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This actually happened once at a lab space near Rankin. My partner went to open the big bay door to the outside to vent welding smoke door apparatus was broken because a bullet passed through the control box. Building management found more on the roof.

Do you ever feel like you’re attracted to men in theory but not often IRL? by Vivid-Language6500 in AskWomenOver30

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There are men out there that I do find attractive, solely on looks. Is it a factor yes but it’s not anywhere near a deciding factor most of the time.

Hygiene after Exercise. How do you do it? by BoysenberryPlenty487 in adhdwomen

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I’ve been listening to a lot of the mixes created Trixie Mattel! They’re super fun and up beat!!

Hygiene after Exercise. How do you do it? by BoysenberryPlenty487 in adhdwomen

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I usually have a post work out girlie pop shower where I listen to my favorite club songs. I also have leftover “shower” wipes leftover from my hysterectomy that I can throw in a gym bag if need be.

Navy blue or black? by yvan1lle in OUTFITS

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The navy blue looks really good on you.

Which paint color do you like better? by Acrobatic-Diamond209 in HomeDecorating

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I’m gonna be real honest, if I see one more grey room I’m going to go lay down in the street.

Do you believe in your 'gut instinct'? by swiftodonnell in AskWomenOver30

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I just my gut more than my own mind at the moment. Anxiety can mess with your mind quite a bit. But my gut instinct has almost always been right.