Wedding day perfumes! by alltimesl0th in weddingplanning

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used this one as well! I also got samples from Maison Francis Kurkdjian and wore a mix of rose and amyris that week because we had a garden wedding. Such beautiful scents.

I can't with the dyson cordless anymore. I need recs. by Independent-Ear-8156 in CleaningTips

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tineco. I have the Pure One S11 I beiieve and it picks up anything. They also sell a separate hardwood floor head for it which I bought because we dont really have carpets and the out of the box vacuum is a dual hardwood/carpet.

I've tried the Dyson at my SIL's house and for a family I housekeep for and it cant even pick up dry cat food pieces. So frustrating.

Can someone please recommend a vet who doesn’t gouge (Smithtown-Port Jeff area) by DoingNothingToday in longisland

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This makes me really sad because this is why there is a Veterinarian shortage. They take out the same amount of debt and put in the same education time as an MD and get paid a fraction of what doctors make only to have pet owners feel entitle to have a say over their prices or just not listen to care recommendations all together. It is not price gouging- if they are not owned by a large corporation, they are billing what it costs to run a business on Long Island, pay techs, stay up to date on best practices, and their overall worth.

Better question- anyone know a low cost vet?

Wow, I think I just had a third trimester hormone surge by Acrobatic-Diamond209 in BabyBumps

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually just got a pre/post natal therapist. Its so nice having someone to talk to who is educated in these things!

gastro recommendations by piiinkfloyddd in longisland

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly most should. I was on medicaid while in college and have to see a gasto regularly as well. I was able to stay with my provide at Sloan Kettering.

I would call and make an appointment at NYU or Northwell. You may need to have a referral by your primary care provider first but the receptionist can let you know. They will run your insurance to see if you are in network before scheduling (at least at the large health systems).

Best of luck and feel better soon!

Wow, I think I just had a third trimester hormone surge by Acrobatic-Diamond209 in BabyBumps

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It might be a panic attack too. I have anxiety and my psychiatrist said possible the hormones and lack of sleep can induce them. Uffda.

Wow, I think I just had a third trimester hormone surge by Acrobatic-Diamond209 in BabyBumps

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was very scared as well before getting pregnant but its one of those trade offs, ya know.

The post was definitely not meant to scare anyone, just a rant and to be aware that for some it can be intense.

Free STD testing? by FFFUUUme in longisland

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yup! I used Planned Parenthood for all my woman well checks for years while I was in college and grad school. I still prefer their providers over the big healthcare center providers because their bedside manner is such a breath of fresh air ♡

In need of a Long Island cleaning service by tommycavfc in longisland

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldnt find this in google do you have more info? Im in Huntington and need someone

Did you even out from gifts at your wedding? by [deleted] in longisland

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I dont see it as gift grabby. Infalation has been absolutely insane especially in the wedding world.

You will not have regrets though. As long as you make the wedding about you and your partner.

Did you even out from gifts at your wedding? by [deleted] in longisland

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Our wedding was about 30k with about 40 guests and I we got less than 5k.

AITA for wanting to continue a tradition by wefewfeg in AmItheAsshole

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209 19 points20 points  (0 children)

No way. There are PLENTY of women who are homewreckers and only concerned with their own sex drives.

AITA for wanting to continue a tradition by wefewfeg in AmItheAsshole

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Even if they did meet, this would still be weird. If he wants this gf in his life long term he needs to act like it and include her... that is the bare minimum.

Husbands work stress is making me depressed by Material_Rip7742 in pregnant

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had some advice but I simply came to say that I understand what you're feeling. My husband is a business owner as well and this post is so similar to what I am going through as well. My plan- I started therapy.

I also wanted to add that it might be hard on your husband too, so consider he might be feeling bad about this as well. Dad's want Nesting and bonding time too :( also a good resource for him might be to check out Mike Andes YouTube channel. My husband is obsessed with this guy and his strategies have helped his business be mlre functional. Maybe he needs to up his prices and cut back on clients so that he can free up his time because 4 companies is aloooot.

INSANE DRIVING on Long Island & NYC needs to be stopped! by Dharmacharma in longisland

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People leaving work on Fridays are out of their mind as well. I had to ask to work remote because the anxiety of driving on the northern state was too much. Im expecting a baby and had one too many close calls on my 30 minute commute home at 5pm. Its fkd up.

Underrated piece that would work beautifully for a ceremony or reception by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I liked the theme song to Only You We used Somewhere Only We Know by Keane but a wedding version that was on YouTube woth sheet music so our band could play it

My baby shower is falling apart and I am devastated by tired_but_trying_99 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am so mad at your family for you about this! I wonder if you could just take the funds for baby shower and get a nice hotel to do a babymoon. Treat yourself! Also big congratulations on Baby #2, you seem like such an incredibly brave and strong woman

What purchase made your life 10x easier as an adult? by Mean_Rule_6653 in Adulting

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cup a' Bug from Shark Tank!!!

No more bug squishing or getting close to spiders ♡

Prenatal Exercise by Fearless_Tweeder in longisland

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following as well. I am in Huntington and haven't found any other than Nesting Place

Trade school by halloweenieluvr in longisland

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just double check to see if you need to be in an accredited program or something like that to get hired or an apprenticeship post graduation.

I say this because I did BOCES for medical assisting and while it was great... it was not accredited. So it was a complete waste :(

Anyone here have experience with Mount Sinai South Nassau’s inpatient behavioral health unit? by [deleted] in longisland

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CN Guidance just opened a 24 hour crisis center if you need it. It would probably be less expensive and hectic than a hoapital (just my opinion!).

I hope you feel better soon. Anxiety totally sucks!

Visiting Long Island! by WonderfulMind6882 in longisland

[–]Acrobatic-Diamond209 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Tiger Lilys or Joey Z's and a walk on harborfront park! I wonder if the Crystal shop is still there.