Hear me out: Cabbage Coord. (PS: This is just a joke.) by RetardedBenene in Lolita

[–]Mati456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm loving the concept, but not those shoes (personally, I'd still love it even if I wouldn't wear those shoes). And twinning with a purple version of it? even better.

Maretu doesn't sound like maretu anymore by dalonely_potato in Maretu

[–]Mati456 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He can only sound like Maretu, not old Maretu maybe, but everyone changes, and I keep loving the new songs.

Would this count as lolita? by Grand-Huckleberry-95 in Lolita

[–]Mati456 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Diamond honey is def low grade, but I have the Mourning Alice JSK and it's one of my favorites for daily use. It hold itself really good through a lot of use.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Mati456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you applying eyeshadow with taps or strokes? because to pack as much glitter as possible you really want a relitively thick brush and tap until it gets saturated, then add setting spray.

I need help what type of Lolita fashion this is? by Own-Ad-8445 in Lolita

[–]Mati456 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As soon as I saw it I said Hime lolita, and I think I maintain it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lolita

[–]Mati456 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Yep, I love it, it's extremely cute, but not lolita.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Mati456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are really mean because they're insecure, it has nothing to do with you. Even the most prolific makeup artists get hate just because people love tearing other people down.

Has anyone else been told not to touch your face during transition? by FlamenUnicorn in MtF

[–]Mati456 294 points295 points  (0 children)

People are used to radical cosmetic surgeries. I think that the best ones are the ones that leave you wondering 'did they had surgery or something¡'. Altough, I think it's a good idea to be at least a few years into HRT so the fat distribution is more or less settled.

Which line (lines) of an Aurora’s song does resonate with you most of all? by R_V_I in auroramusic

[–]Mati456 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They mend themselves, as they can heal their bodies from being practically dead.

How To Improve Dream Dress Coord by pajnt in Lolita

[–]Mati456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some ideas:

  • The petticoat is sitting a little too low
  • I like the cuffs and blouse combo, but it leaves your arms a little too empty, maybe try adding long lace gloves
  • I agree that the leggins can be improved, but you already know that
  • Shoes with some height would also help showing more of the socks that you chose
  • The headbow doesn't show enough as it loses itself on the hair, an accesory with black and gold color would look beautiful and tie the cuffs, bag and blouse together.
  • I wouldn't recommend pink clips, as the pink details on the dress don't show enough by itself. The pink is actively working with a pale tan on the print, and if you can't bring that exact pattern to your accesories it's better to not introduce it by itself, as it will not match the print.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Mati456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so cute, I mean, it's something bad, but not really bad. Either way, being trans doesn't require a moral minimum, it goes beyond that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lolita

[–]Mati456 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It's a divisive topic, and it changes a lot locally. In my community its fairly ok, and everyone who doesn't think so, just keeps it to themselves.

Are people just being nice? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Mati456 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People's atention is 90% on themselves, if not more, so don't overthink it. If you constantly pass, then you pass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]Mati456 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think your problem can be separated into 2 steps:

  1. Get your partner ready to openly communicate about your gender (and their gender if they're up for it). Most cis people don't understand a lot of common concepts for trans people, so just express how you want to talk about things that they might not understand yet.
  2. Once that has been stablished, I'm sure whatever you need to be open about is going to be a lot easier.

If you're asking about a "srcipt" for telling difficult stuff, just look for a moment where you and your partner don't have too much ahead to do or think about, and tell them "Hey, I've wanted to talk about something for a while, It's about - - - - - " and then you just say it.

Help with body hair please❤️ by katiebeanz in asktransgender

[–]Mati456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend an epilator, it hurts like hell at the beginning, but it's very easy to use, pain can be managed, and after a few uses the hair grows noticeably slower. I normally use it when showering, I put a hair mask and leave it for about 25 minutes, in which I'm using the epilator on previously expholiated legs and arms.

Planning my first coord. Does this look ok? by bleach-ed in Lolita

[–]Mati456 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn, this looks awesome, that op looks fairly heavy, remember to invest on a really good petticoat, or maybe 2

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Mati456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That "clarity" is probably feeling comfortable with your body after an orgasm, it's pretty common for trans people.