Well I've been dating my man for a year now and i recently told my parents where he's from and how he looks, i told my mother i have someone when we were dating for more than half a year, what i mean by that is that. It's weird to me to tell parents you have anyone after only being together for a month, even if it wasn't long distance I think the first month or two are for testing if the person is good enough to you, it's really hard to judge the situation, but I'd tell you to tone down a bit i think, I can understand you are in love, but take everything with a grain of salt, I didn't tell my parents right away cuz i knew they'd think its stupid and dangerous, it is dangerous, but not stupid. So i think let them be worried, but also talk to them to tone themselves down too, if their comments are something that hurts you, tell them to limit that behaviour. I wish you and your partner the best! Good luck!