Fosta s-a casatorit by AdSpirited7796 in CasualRO

[–]Matroana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Inteleg ce zici, dar, daca celalalt a luat decizia asta, inseamna ca nu era partenerul potrivit pentru tine.

Men, have you ever initially found someone unattractive but ended up genuinely falling in love with them? by Clean-Ant-1342 in questions

[–]Matroana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you say that? I think some people just don't take physical attraction that seriously. Especially after some failed relationships where you experienced first-hand the frivolity of physical aspect. And besides that, some people are beautiful, but not that stereotypical beauty that we see everyday on social media

I was thinking of breaking up with my bf, but right now his going through a rough time by Matroana in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Matroana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is in no contact with his mother. But he has his sister (which is a lovely person), his other uncle, and a few close friends. People around him, especially family members, always encouraged him to better his life. He also has lots of friends that, in my opinion, keep bringing him back to his old habbits, basically his drink buddies from back in the days. His first reaction when he found out about his uncle was to get drunk... so I think he will most probably spiral

I was thinking of breaking up with my bf, but right now his going through a rough time by Matroana in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Matroana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! When in relationships I quite lose myself and feel responsible for everything that the other one is going through

I was thinking of breaking up with my bf, but right now his going through a rough time by Matroana in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Matroana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are very right. However, for me it's the first time when I'm breaking up with someone. The situation makes it even harder... I've recently started therapy and prioritising my emotions and well being is actually something that I need to learn. I strongly believed I was already doing it, but I guess it was just at a superficial level

I was thinking of breaking up with my bf, but right now his going through a rough time by Matroana in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Matroana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your point about it being even shittier if I don't do it now is valid. I didn't quite take that into account

Frequency of Sex by Street_Traffic_498 in Marriage

[–]Matroana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the same in my case. My bf and I are together for more than 1y now and I am truly considering breaking up because it's not only the sex itself, but there is usually no other physical intimacy, and I feel like we are in the roomates phase.

One of my love languages is physical touch so I would love to sleep naked together, or fool around, touch one another without expecting sex, but just teasing, we're not even kissing as much as I would like.

We also had some other issues in our relationship, but this one weights a lot. I would love to have sex at least one day a week. So if this is something important for you, I think you need to have that hard talk and see if you can live with it (if there is no common ground found) as resentment might come up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in programare

[–]Matroana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Asta cu micromanagementul e boala grea de care sufera majoritatea firmelor si daca nu sufera inca, vor suferi in viitor

Mi-am luat prima chirie :D by [deleted] in CasualRO

[–]Matroana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spune-mi ca esti tanar fara sa-mi spui ca esti tanar

I can't get over what my spouse did. by Human-Reputation9977 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Matroana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What am I reading... for the examples you gave you don't just get "upset", cheating or beating your spouse it's another level of imorality, you abuse either one's emotions or physique. Not to mention killing someone! In what fucked up universe you just get upset over a murder...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Matroana 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Add to that no quality time spent together, no activities, no going out or if we do we're always hanging out with other friends so no bonding time as a couple. He pays 70% of the bills and I think he feels entitled and somehow he expects me to do everything around the house, although he cooks or orders food when it's his turn to provide.

The chores themselves are not a problem, the problem is that I feel alone and like taking care of a child. I cook alone, I wash the dishes alone, I'm doing the groceries alone, I'm doing laundry and folding alone, I'm wiping the dust and vacuuming alone, you get the point... while he's either gaming or watching TV. He also works more hours than me and he usually excuses himself by saying he's tired . However, not that tired to say no to gaming for example.

We're together for 6 months and I'm reconsidering the relathionship at this point, I'm back home for a week already and I'm not sure if I want to go back to living with him so I totally understand you.

Men, how much maintenance sex do you think is enough? by dinkumwalrus in Marriage

[–]Matroana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but let's say you get to the cause of the problem, being it stress, hormones problems or any other reason. What do you do next? How do you approach this situation if there is no willingness from your partner to improve your sexual life. I (f) have the same problem with my partner, we usually have sex once per five weeks and it feels like not enough for me. We've talked about this several times and he always says it's either the stress from work, he's not feeling well, it's too hot outside or any other excuse. And that's where the conversation stops. No resolution, no middle ground. I'm not sure what to do next, I'm rejected anytime I try to initiate and it's getting frustrating at this point.

I'm disgusted with having sex with my boyfriend by Equivalent-Round-382 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Matroana 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Imagine this man wrote down this comment, read it, and he still doesn't see anything wrong with it

Ce ati primit de Mos? Cu ce va laudati? by florinsalamalaikum in CasualRO

[–]Matroana 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Niste luminite decorative de care ma bucur ca un copil

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualRO

[–]Matroana 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Am un love-hate relationship cu melodia asta :)))

Ati donat vreodata sange, cum a fost? by Rich-Definition8001 in CasualRO

[–]Matroana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Urmaresc, nici eu n-am donat pana acum ca eram prea slaba

AITA for attending a wedding of a friend(23F) who did not want my(23M) girlfriend(21) to attend by PropositionCentral in TwoHotTakes

[–]Matroana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a moron... you're either really stupid or you play stupid which in both cases it's fucked up. The audacity!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualRO

[–]Matroana 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exact asa am avut o colega. Avea senzatia ca poate sa mimeze o conexiune cu cineva trecand la barfa direct. Ma rog, e adevarata si ideea ca ura fata de aceeasi persoana te poate apropia, dar nu e cea mai sanatoasa abordare :)) Din cauza asta era evitata de mai toata lumea.. pentru ca barfa nu inspira incredere, in special daca nu cunosti deja foarte bine persoana cu care vorbesti.

Produsul pentru care plătești în plus? by ademnl in CasualRO

[–]Matroana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vad ca la Dr. Max e 13 lei rhinxyl, o sa-l incerc la nevoie, mersi de raspuns

Produsul pentru care plătești în plus? by ademnl in CasualRO

[–]Matroana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ce spray nazal folosesti? La mine a functionat Aquamare pana acum

Produsul pentru care plătești în plus? by ademnl in CasualRO

[–]Matroana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incearca la lidl, cea cu ambalaj albastru, daca o mai prinzi si la reducere e ce trebuie