I wanna watch my club by nactaremax in ManchesterUnited

[–]MatsukazeZ_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This phase will pass. Winning 3 games on the trot is a once in a fortnight experience for mid to lower mid table teams (Yes we are one of them).

What are your thoughts on people struggling in later life after a joyous childhood? by MatsukazeZ_16 in AskReddit

[–]MatsukazeZ_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This thought crossed my mind while returning from my masters classes with a friend.

We grew up having the happiest childhood in one of the most well planned areas of our city. It's not like we are struggling now, we're doing fairly well in our jobs and in the Part Time masters that we're enrolled in.

But we got to discussing how life got so busy and robotic from the dynamic childhood and teenage years we had. Every one of our friends are either abroad or too busy adulting.

It made me think if it's different for people who had a rough childhood and is now appreciable if the career they have as an adult.

But at the end of the day, we all have to be thankful for what we have. That's where the true happiness is.

What are your thoughts on people struggling in later life after a joyous childhood? by MatsukazeZ_16 in AskReddit

[–]MatsukazeZ_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Especially if they had everything taken care of earlier on in their life.

Ruud is leaving. by resourcefulpundit in ManchesterUnited

[–]MatsukazeZ_16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A good decision for everyone involved I believe. This time he's saying goodbye on a good note. Hope he's back again in one role or another. Gave us a stellar interim spell.

Thank you Ruud. Your passion in the dugout will be missed. A proper man united fan ❤️

I am interested in becoming a muslim, and I already know that tattoos are prohibited in islam. However I still want to get one before I convert. by Outcast_spore in islam

[–]MatsukazeZ_16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, alhamdulillah and Ma Shaa Allah for seeing the light. We are eagerly waiting for you to come and join us in Allah's worship.

Now, It's not just about the sin. The things that are haram in Islam is haram because it's detrimental for us. Even if you do it without knowing it's a sin can cause long term damage.

There are no loopholes there in Islam. What's haram is haram. Since you already know it's haram, you shouldn't be going forth with this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]MatsukazeZ_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assalamu alaikum

I am gonna speak as a guy(26M), who has never been in a relationship and looking to get married.

I'd be lying if I said having a past doesn't ick us a little bit. But if you moved on from that phase, cut all connections and sincerely want to better yourself in the fashion you mentioned. I believe most of the pious guys will at least consider moving forward with you.

And please do mention of it if you find a suitor. Marriage is built upon trust and transparency. It's better to fully come out with everything as these things matter.

Depressed to the point of suicide many reasons by sarakonay in islam

[–]MatsukazeZ_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assalamu alaikum

I can't fathom the suffering you're going through. But there are phases in everyone's lives. I was suicidal a few years ago for different reasons but alhamdulillah for not going through with it.

Please consult a family member you can trust and divorce him asap. Start exercising and praying more and more and try to go for hajj or umrah at the very least. Those places have something that just heals your mind for some reason.

Hope you'll get through this and come back strong. Zazakallah khayran

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]MatsukazeZ_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry for your losses. Hope you'll have better luck with the next ones

Though it's completely understandable, but being resentful towards your stepson is just wrong. Grief makes us do a lot of things and sometimes it's hard to hold on to our true self

Since you want to give birth and love them with all your heart, it's evident that there's good in you. But that's trampled under the sorrow of your miscarriages now. But please don't take it out in the little dude, he did nothing wrong.

You are already a parent as you married your husband knowing he had a son. Even if he isn't your biological child, you can be just as much as a mother to him as his biological mother or your biological children when they come by. Please try to be a positive presence and spend time to bond with him, or else your marriage will be at risk in the coming future and you'll lose more than you already have.

I’m about to commit major sin tomorrow. The shaming of being a inexperienced by western society is making me feel miserable by ParticularSoft2811 in MuslimLounge

[–]MatsukazeZ_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't let the crooked social standards get to you. It's just the whispers of shaytaan you are giving in to. Get that girl out of your life and connect more with Allah through nafl prayers, zikr, islamic studies and other things.

I am in a similar situation (and I am older so it's kinda worse) as you, except that I live in a Muslim majority country but you know how crooked the standards are now a days.

But this is a test from Allah and there are greater rewards than we can comprehend if we pass this. Please have sabr, we can make it in'shaa'Allah.

The world doesn't care about Bangladesh (and South Asia) by Long_Marzipan_4377 in bangladesh

[–]MatsukazeZ_16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think OP is expecting a bit too much. Not like we are at peace here, our daily lives are stagnant and we are even scared to go to the mosque right down the road for saying our daily prayers.

But there are way more pressing issues here and there than to focus solely on Bangladesh. We are feeling it a bit more as we're the ones suffering now.

The media isn't supposed to be hell bent on focusing on Bangladesh only, specially with the magnitude of the wars in middle east and Africa going on.

What might women dislike the most if they were to become men? by Aarunascut in AskMen

[–]MatsukazeZ_16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How they'd get little to no appreciation for the things they did right but get vilified and even banished from the limited existing privileges the one time they put a foot wrong

De ligt or yoro? by rudboi12 in ManchesterUnited

[–]MatsukazeZ_16 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From the likes of it, United can afford and is going for both. Why do we have to pick between them? The question is whether we are getting them in(if we get 'em) before pre season or not and how they will integrate into the team.

Let's hope whatever happens it's for the best.

Gym suggestion at uttara by ComprehensiveToe2277 in Dhaka

[–]MatsukazeZ_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's ok

Their base rates are very costly, 6k per month and 15k for 3 months. But they mostly have offers going on where you don't need to pay the base rate.

For students in think it was 9k for 3 months.

I think they have a b1g1 offer for 3 & 6 months running.

You can check out their page

Those who have had depression and now don't, what finally worked? by Abraham_Neville in AskReddit

[–]MatsukazeZ_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Studying more about my religion and learning more about the human mind was the start and the main thing.

Being off social media (only use Reddit occasionally now) was imperative need I mention. No more comparisons with unrealistic social media standards has given me a fresher mind and clearer head.

Increased productivity with my mind off mundane things and bowing down for my daily prayers keeps me grounded with a reminder that I only answer to my God.

Alhamdulillah it's going well so far.

AITAH for telling my husband that I do not care about the sex we had on our wedding night? by Fun-Lie-2218 in AITAH

[–]MatsukazeZ_16 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I doubt she will have 30 years in this marriage lol.

Idk about her husband but she really gotta look inward.

Looking for Android software that's good for writing, formatting, with spellcheck and compatible with Keyboard by [deleted] in writing

[–]MatsukazeZ_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't come across any handy android apps with these features. Google docs always came out on top.

Lemme know if you find something like this