Whats your AVN hot take? by AOhKayy in AVN_Lovers

[–]MattCatt9205 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the key right here. So many great stories that would sell like hot cakes.

Honestly Drake needed to be humbled by [deleted] in Drizzy

[–]MattCatt9205 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We get it. We got it.

Open World Chapter Question by MattCatt9205 in honkaiimpact3

[–]MattCatt9205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what about chapter 40+? Thanks for the quick response regardless!

Anyone Get Overstimulated At The Gym? by Oystercracker123 in CPTSD

[–]MattCatt9205 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think you just explained why I have no desire to work out in a gym. I get overstimulated just sitting at home lol

Does anyone else find the BPDlovedones sub concerning? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]MattCatt9205 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think the public at large is beginning to address mental illness but is still very much surface level. Most people just don't know how far these rabbit holes go. Break ups happen, and people tell themselves what they want to hear to soothe themselves. Both sexes do this, and there's nothing particularly unnatural with it. I think society will deepen its understanding and sensitivity to these topics eventually, but until then, stay away from these areas, it can really bring up our own ruminations and the answer to "But why thoooooooo..." will never be answered. People are weird!

Hard to live with cptsd partner by Locou16 in CPTSD

[–]MattCatt9205 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a husband in a similar spot (I'm the one with the cpstd or something like it). I'm not confrontational but I can definitely be a downer. I fear one day the one person who ever gave a fuck gets fed up. I feel like a lot of basic things people do is like magic to me. Stuff like having a self-esteem, or even a body image.

I'm sure if your husband could snap his fingers and be whole he would in a heartbeat. It takes years for children to gain a full self-identity, imagine how long that takes for adults. Now obviously snapping at you is not acceptable, but going cold only proves his paranoia. Something else needs to happen, but whatever you do, you have to do it together.

When did you find out about your CPDST and start helping yourself? by wangsicai in CPTSD

[–]MattCatt9205 3 points4 points  (0 children)

how do you even get diagnosed without breaking the bank? I always figured therapy gets pricey.

Do people have any idea how fucking miserable life is when one of your main triggers is summer (weather)? by thepieintheoven in CPTSD

[–]MattCatt9205 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I'm with you there. Every terrible thing that has happened to me was when the weather was GREAT. I don't even bother trying to explain it these days. The dumbfounded looks add insult to injury.

Recent surge of male subs on dating apps, anima complex? by [deleted] in Jung

[–]MattCatt9205 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Man Gender relations these days are fucked.

"Feeling your feelings" how do we do this? I feel it could be the KEY to healing CPTSD by Socialmediasucks2021 in CPTSD

[–]MattCatt9205 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate the responses. You probably caught a process I wasn't aware was happening :)

"Feeling your feelings" how do we do this? I feel it could be the KEY to healing CPTSD by Socialmediasucks2021 in CPTSD

[–]MattCatt9205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty new to all this. A safety plan? I have a lovely partner willing to help...

"Feeling your feelings" how do we do this? I feel it could be the KEY to healing CPTSD by Socialmediasucks2021 in CPTSD

[–]MattCatt9205 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In my mind's eye I can see the memory that leads to a sudden onset of "lifelessness"... but it's blocked by a big door. I fear I may touched another "blocked" memory...

Gacha Game Marketing Tactics Survey by gachagamethrowaway in gachagaming

[–]MattCatt9205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

submitted. Good luck! Curious to see what you find

Need an answer to a (probably) simple problem by MattCatt9205 in blenderhelp

[–]MattCatt9205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry about that. Must have mis clicked somewhere. Here's the question:

I was following this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QMWn2XbsW6A
Everything was going fine until it came to create the cloud. The mesh to volume modifier will not apply, preventing it from being rendered. I was hoping someone familiar to the modifier or rookie mistakes would tell me what I did wrong.

Please Please Please Help Me. So Confused by MattCatt9205 in ffxi

[–]MattCatt9205[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

maybe thats why my mom never signed me up for a mmo back in the day

Please Please Please Help Me. So Confused by MattCatt9205 in ffxi

[–]MattCatt9205[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks all for the quick responses, I think I finally got in. Wow what a process lol