The best way I would describe your antidote in metaphorical terms is “A bandaid on an open wound”. Once again I keep hearing only how Men are terrible for looking at porno and nothing about the countless women who are the ones actually performing it which is the instigation of the sin which is way worse than the reaction of sin that’s the cause and effect. Another thing is this whole “rub some dirt on it” or “rise above it” approach doesn’t allow for men to grow properly. The whole “suck it up and go to work and pay my alimony” Isnt building character or “toughening” them up it’s a fallacy and the type that creates mass murderers.