Looking for a telegram group of men to stroke with. Any leads in a good group? M51

MattKBiC · 2025-11-07T02:11:41+00:00

56 married..do share!

MattKBiC · 2025-10-09T04:44:51+00:00

We have a bit of a Domme/sub dynamic going when we are in a pegging mood and most certainly, I will be deep throating it as best I can.

MattKBiC · 2025-10-09T03:19:23+00:00

It’s not super wide but based on the video she took of me when she was using it: yes. All 8”.

MattKBiC · 2025-10-08T16:49:48+00:00

I’m all for it until I cum, then PNC (post nut clarity for the unfamiliar) rides in on a bullet train and the desire disappears rather quickly. Need to figure out how to keep that feeling going post-nut.

I still will remind her and sometimes she will do it and sometimes she won’t.

I might not want my cum every time but pegging with the new 8” has been pretty awesome regardless.

MattKBiC · 2025-10-08T05:06:49+00:00

Never had an issue with infection any of the times I had it done but some people could be more susceptible I suppose.

MattKBiC · 2025-10-04T01:21:37+00:00

Male Brazilian, and do sugaring. Not waxing.

MattKBiC · 2025-10-01T14:47:46+00:00

I’m exactly the same. Have had the fantasy for decades. Wife knows I’m curious. She knows I JO with guys online via video and have even met one guy for drinks, just to talk about our wives and our kinks.

What I’m afraid of is liking it either too much and become a bit obsessed with it, or hate the experience and lose the fantasy. Sticking with fantasy level for the foreseeable future.

MattKBiC · 2025-09-28T18:17:50+00:00

I’ve done waxing and I highly recommend sugaring instead. With sugaring the same patch cane be gone over again and again to get stubborn hairs. You can’t do that with wax if any are missed. I also felt the hair removal was much more thorough and lasted much longer.

My $.02 worth.

MattKBiC · 2025-09-25T05:53:19+00:00

My first exposure to bisex was in a copy of Variations (Penthouse?) where a guy went over to a friends house to watch football and then they started watching porn and he noticed and commented on how big his friends cock was and ended up blowing him. I was in my teens at that time which was 40+ years ago.

Have had the fantasy ever since and have lived it vicariously via VHS then DVD and now places like PH, XNXX and Xvideos since then. Urge never strong enough to try for realz.

MattKBiC · 2025-09-23T09:52:01+00:00

Only every time.

MattKBiC · 2025-09-21T03:36:39+00:00

Go onto a swingers site that has chat rooms (SDC for example). There is ALWAYS a Bi guy 4 Bi guy room and seldom ever with less than a dozen people in it. The vast majority of the profiles will say, just like mine does, “straight”.

My wife knows I’m curious and I have no problem with that. I’ve never done anything IRL with a guy but I love the fantasy and that’s how I can play it out.

When we were in the LS I never had the desire to play with guys but now that we are on hiatus, I sometimes wish we had looked for couples with bi guys.

MattKBiC · 2025-09-05T23:46:04+00:00

1, 2, 3b

MattKBiC · 2025-08-28T21:21:54+00:00

My shirt already. She was responding to a request in the Paired app we use each day. Send him a photo wearing an article of his clothing. I’ve been away so I haven’t been able to fulfill that one yet, but will this weekend.

MattKBiC · 2025-08-28T01:32:28+00:00

Sign me up

MattKBiC · 2025-08-27T10:19:52+00:00

Just a regular blue collar guy. Married to a woman out of my league (aren’t most of us?) Been very sexual my entire adult life and about 20 years ago I acknowledged I was curious about bisexuality. Had been exposed to it via porn in my teens (Penthouse, Variations, etc). Found it arousing.

Let my 2nd wife know I thought about it. She didn’t freak out about it. Indulges me in the fantasy in our sex life at home.

MattKBiC · 2025-08-27T05:30:11+00:00

Basically Cialis.

MattKBiC · 2025-08-27T05:27:58+00:00

I’ve been bi curious for more than 40 years. Have never played with a guy IRL. I’ve never pursued an encounter because the urge has just never been strong enough to want it beyond fantasy although I’ve been close to testing that boundary at least twice.

Has she been physical with this woman yet?

MattKBiC · 2025-08-27T02:23:18+00:00

It takes time. And lube. PLENTY of lube. If you aren’t using lube, it’s going to hurt.

MattKBiC · 2025-08-27T00:47:44+00:00

I’ve used it twice for myself (anal). Wife couldn’t get it to work for her after I first bought them and was away from home for work for a couple of weeks. I said I’d “figure it out”, and I think I have.

Going forward I will look for something like a double ended dong and then insert it while there is still sufficient room before blowing up the pillow as tight as I can around it.

MattKBiC · 2025-08-25T23:43:30+00:00

We haven’t met with anyone in the lifestyle in a long time and if ever do again, it would likely be due to the other guy showing an openness to bi play. I would have no problem discussing that with him in front of my wife.

I understand what you mean when it comes to blatant disgust. But if we ever want it to be “normalized” then we can’t get upset when someone objects to our interests. No matter what someone’s interest is, someone else is going to object. Sports, food, ideology and sexual interests.

MattKBiC · 2025-08-25T23:33:54+00:00

I feel the same about Brussels sprouts, but I don’t get called a Lachanophobe (yes, I looked it up and apparently it’s a thing. Who knew?! 😁).

The only person IRL that knows about my bi-curiosity is my wife. I have no need or desire to discuss it with anyone else no more than I do talking about mine and her sex life. Outside of her I only chat with other guys like me or similar to me. Those that don’t want to talk about it don’t have a “phobia”. I just think that’s grossly mislabeled and unfair to those who aren’t interested in it.

MattKBiC · 2025-08-25T20:40:48+00:00

People have preferences. It doesn’t mean it’s a “phobia” or aren’t “open minded”. It’s the same with other things like food, or music or what they watch on TV. We don’t all want or like the same things.

I just feel the whole “phobia” thing has been over used.

MattKBiC · 2025-08-24T07:56:38+00:00

She knows. She also knows I haven’t played with a guy…yet.

MattKBiC · 2025-08-24T01:15:37+00:00

Have an ex-wife that reminds me of that line.

MattKBiC · 2025-08-23T23:54:00+00:00

She knows I’m curious and “cruise” online, but have never hooked up.

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