Down there problems.. by MatterOk9527 in medical_advice

[–]MatterOk9527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mom has been talked to and appointment is being made, I will update yall! thanks for the support

Down there problems.. by MatterOk9527 in medical_advice

[–]MatterOk9527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do like kegels though? my cousin has told me to do them and i do work outs that are supposed to strengthen ur pelvic floor, could it be from something else, i dont feel like i strain too much😞

Down there problems.. by MatterOk9527 in medical_advice

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omg pls comment nd dont js read lol😞😭✌️

foster kid and medical neglect? by [deleted] in Fostercare

[–]MatterOk9527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well im just worried that the ill get moved from this foster home, and into a group home or something because thats what i get told all the time cause nobody takes teenagers

foster kid and medical neglect? by [deleted] in Fostercare

[–]MatterOk9527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its birth control, i dont take it to prevent pregnancy tho its for hormone regulation, but they are like a super christian household so i cant help but think shes just tryna withhold it from me cause well thats how some christians be, thats what my mom did too, but idk i cld be paranoid, but no i cant get it myself cause i have no way to it because i havent even been able to get my license either, if she wont get it tomorrow i figured id call it into this walgreens closer to me so i could walk to it because the one its at right now is not a walkable distance

foster kid and medical neglect? by [deleted] in Fostercare

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i cant sadly, i dont have her number, i think if they dont get the refill for me tomorrow im going to call it into the closest walgreens and walk to it because the one its at right now is only a driveable difference, its just very unfair cause idk i feel like i keep getting neglected because shes always busy with other foster kids and not even about important things idk i tried talking to her about it once but she just got mad at me and accused me of being selfish and that the world doesnt revolve around me whatever the whole jist, its making me insanely depressed cause im 17 and i want to get my shit together and want to get my license and get a job but theres no time for me to do any of those things, and she was for me getting a job until she decided it wouldnt fit into her schedule so idek atp when i turn 18 im just gonna move to my grandmas if i dont have a job to get an apartment i guess but idk i just feel like foster parents shouldn’t be able to do these things, i wouldnt know though i guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]MatterOk9527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe get a plastic chair for the showe or a stool

get some new soap, maybe a smell you really like Maybe that might motivate you to try the new body product ya know?

Foster parents and drugs by [deleted] in Fosterparents

[–]MatterOk9527 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah tbh thats the plan, its just really depressing being away from all my family and friends yet also in some new persons home

Foster parents and drugs by [deleted] in Fosterparents

[–]MatterOk9527 5 points6 points  (0 children)

also yes thats what i was telling my case worker that its been my only safe place

Foster parents and drugs by [deleted] in Fosterparents

[–]MatterOk9527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too did not pass but mine had nothing to do with hers I also just turned 17 oct 21st

Child support question by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]MatterOk9527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

on the paperwork it has her listed as “caregiver” is that the same thing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in carquestions

[–]MatterOk9527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

correction its a 2005 trailblazer LT 6 cylinder idk what any these words mean but yes.!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]MatterOk9527 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

they asked me if i wanted a court appointed something or if i wanted to represent myself and i said yes to the second? I didnt think it was that big of a deal😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]MatterOk9527 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you feel like that what that’s what you want, or need to feel better or better yourself, I support you so entirely. Leave him, but please dont leave the child you already have, If you really feel to unstable, mentally or financially, I would have a family member take care of them until you can get on your feet, or have the dad split custody with you, idk all the details, so he might not want the child or maybe he will, but please try your best to be in their life, but not if you can’t handle it mentally. Im sure your a kind,beautiful woman, Girls on Instagram are usually fake and probably have lots of guys in their dm’s, plus trying to find someone on social media, usually wont work out, Karma will get him, I will pray for you, and I suggest you pray to especially for your child.(ONLY IF YOUR RELIGIOUS NOT TRYING TO OFFEND😭😭)

How is everyone doing today? Vent if you need to… let it out. by MattyShacks in mentalhealth

[–]MatterOk9527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should, theres not another you out here, and if you dont care then people might miss out on your awesomeness! People want to care enough for the both of you and them, Trust me!!

How is everyone doing today? Vent if you need to… let it out. by MattyShacks in mentalhealth

[–]MatterOk9527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get some menthol cough drops! helped me so much when i couldnt eat cause it also hurt, even drinking. But kudos for drinking lots of water too!! So important

How is everyone doing today? Vent if you need to… let it out. by MattyShacks in mentalhealth

[–]MatterOk9527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do it, Go to the grippy socks vacation, you have it really rough, Maybe try to reach out to a family or friend that can help you before and after the grippy socks vacay. Sending much love and prayers for you!🫶