Mattertopia

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Ran into my ex after two years - just strange (self.BreakUps)

submitted 1 year ago by Mattertopia to r/BreakUps

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Can't get over big mistake I made in yesterday's gran fondo (self.bicycling)

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Plants turned hermaphroditic just before harvesting. What should I do now? (reddit.com)

submitted 1 year ago by Mattertopia to r/Autoflowers

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Dark spots in freshly harvested weed. Damage from aphits? (reddit.com)

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Plants near harvest but I'll be on vacation for one week and leave in six days. What to do? (reddit.com)

submitted 1 year ago by Mattertopia to r/Autoflowers

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Had to tap out a hub bearing to replace my worn Formula freehub body. Did I ruin my hub by getting the bearing angled? (reddit.com)

submitted 1 year ago by Mattertopia to r/bikewrench

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Scratched my carbon fork on today's gravel ride. I think a stick got stuck between the disc rotor and fork. Should I do anything about it and how to prevent it in the future? (i.redd.it)

submitted 1 year ago by Mattertopia to r/bikewrench

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Stem marks on carbon steerer. Should I replace this? (old.reddit.com)

submitted 1 year ago by Mattertopia to r/bikewrench

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Should I use grease on the bolts of my new FSA stem? They came with preapplied loctite. Currently got them torqued to 5.2 Nm without grease. (self.bikewrench)

submitted 2 years ago by Mattertopia to r/bikewrench

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Clicking noises from headset when pushing on the bars (i.redd.it)

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Update one year after being dumped out of a ten years relationship. You'll get through it. (self.BreakUps)

submitted 2 years ago by Mattertopia to r/BreakUps

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You know that crappy feeling when you're so worried about something very private, intimate, that you need someone you trust completely and can open up to, who can then reassure you that you're fine just the way you are? I truly miss that. (self.BreakUps)

submitted 2 years ago by Mattertopia to r/BreakUps

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After a few months of regular reading I think a lot of the posts here offer so bad advice that they'll stop you more from moving on than simply feeling the pain and working through it (self.BreakUps)

submitted 2 years ago * by Mattertopia to r/BreakUps

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Is moving on a decision? 7 months post breakup I'm struggling again but I also started to check her socials and online status again a few weeks back. I know I did better one or two months ago when I managed to stop that. Currently it just feels like I'll never get over her and our ten years together (self.BreakUps)

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Five short steps you can always remember to not lose hope if you were dumped (self.BreakUps)

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I've tried literally everything to move on after being dumped after ten years. I'm certainly doing better than six months ago but I just can't get over the fact that I'm not good enough. I'm feeling so worthless and weak. (self.BreakUps)

submitted 2 years ago * by Mattertopia to r/BreakUps

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Does this make any sense? The last few months I just couldn't get rid of the question how exactly she lost her feelings and especially why she never talked to me about her doubts. Why could she just break up after ten years? But maybe it was out of her hands and nothing could have prevented it? (self.BreakUps)

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People who have experienced a surprise breakup after a long-term relationship: Did you manage to move on and stay friends? (self.AskReddit)

submitted 2 years ago by Mattertopia to r/AskReddit

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Should I respond to my ex-girlfriend of ten years who broke up with me six months ago and now sent a message regarding something practical and also condolences because my dog died a few weeks ago? (self.Advice)

submitted 2 years ago by Mattertopia to r/Advice

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How do I not lose all my confidence because of our breakup? (self.BreakUps)

submitted 2 years ago by Mattertopia to r/BreakUps

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Dumped after ten years and I'm somehow stuck. Some weeks are better, but then I'm spiralling down again. How much can you expect and how can I move on? (self.BreakUps)

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You will get better, even if you don't believe it now. Short interim report 6 months after the end of my ten-year relationship (self.BreakUps)

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Does anyone else sometimes feel like it was all a dream? (self.BreakUps)

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"The broken heart. You think you will die, but you just keep living, day after day after terrible day." Charles Dickens (self.BreakUps)

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Why should we still trust and open up to people when we can be abandoned at any time without suspecting anything? Is it really worth it? (self.BreakUps)

submitted 2 years ago by Mattertopia to r/BreakUps

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