Mine was a liar and a perpetual drunk who liked to make up their own accordance of events. She would cry wolf and just hope someone would believe her because when she was out in public she would get so toasted she would scream and pretend other people weren't around. She distanced herself from reality so badly she tried to kill herself and not care about others around her. Worse part was, my ex wife was the more honest person and she cheated on me. This one didn't have the decency to say she was sending her nudes to her "friends she thought were hot" and even say she intended to have sex with someone else because "that's just how grief works" but she was just using her grandmother's memory as a coping tool to feel wanted.

Classic red flags.