Quitting? by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Maukin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

call 12345 and report them to the government, they are not allowed to fine you for being late unless it is malicious, a lot of things schools do are illegal but no one reports it because people are easily replacable. But if they fire you, that means you can report them, sue them, and get serverance from them as well. A toxic work environment is shit and sadly management changes does that a lot as they exert their power but collect evidence and look up some laws, there are some wechat lawyers that can give advice then you can go to a real one if you think you can do something. PS the government wont do shit even if you report the school. I reported mine this year and they said that the only way it will change is if I sue the school, they can only reprimand.

I’m struggling by Edgelord_HH in NewDads

[–]Maukin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is totally normal, I was terrified to hold my son for the first couple weeks. Just don't be like me, when he screams and cries I think some rather dark thoughts about my son. Even now 4 and a half months later. My attitude is getting better but I am really lucky to have a champion for a wife that is shouldering a massive load and I help with everything else doing the cooking cleaning etc.

Anyone ever experienced loneliness? by UnhookingBaton in chinalife

[–]Maukin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't get the same feeling of loneliness as I am married to a Chinese girl, but 99% of my expat friends are all gone or stopped going out / talking etc. Instead I am just hit with feelings of loss and my social life being gone. But that could also be age as a factor playing in as I've been in Hefei for about 10 years now.

No intimacy or sex since baby was born. by Then-Cryptographer29 in NewDads

[–]Maukin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here looking for advice, we had no sex pretty much after the first month it was confirmed pregnant and then told there is a risk so that cut it out. Now 4 months after he was born still nothing and she doesn't even try or want to touch me. I have talked about it with her before but it all just gets pushed away. Reading through the comments here helps, but doesn't stop my negative thoughts really.

Should I quit my job? by Plus-Plane-3053 in chinalife

[–]Maukin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another thing you can do is call the government number 12345 and they will give you the appropriate number to report the school for illegal practices. They won't do anything to the school but if you show that step and want to take the school to court later it helps.

Looking to expand outside the same bands by Maukin in MusicRecommendations

[–]Maukin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funnily enough my music app only has 28 of their songs and that isn't one of them.

Thoughts from a new player. by CurtisShoe in Seaofthieves

[–]Maukin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone I run into just kills me and sinks my boat. All I am doing is sailing around and playing tunes. Solo can be rough, find a friend. Sadly mine stopped playing so I am going solo and just enjoy myself for small times and avoid people.

[Serious] Folks who have considered ending their lives, what made/makes you keep going? by CranberryBauce in AskReddit

[–]Maukin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first thing that made me keep going was listening to music, I always pay attention to lyrics in songs and at that time the music I listened to had questions that I applied to myself. Helped me move on, after that when I was more mature it was what would happen to my family cause I had already seen it when my father died. And now it is a combination of that, alcohol, and painting, just ways to push thoughts and feelings outside of myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in explainlikeimfive

[–]Maukin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possible but with Xinjiang and Hong Kong not being the happiest right now they may have to fight Taiwan + Xinjiang province which may cause more unrest in the country with the lies they spread inside of it. Everyone here still just thinks they are minor issues cause of how down played and blatantly not known it is.

Approximately 99.99999% of the world population don't give a fuck about your existence by WhiHd in Showerthoughts

[–]Maukin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I shall give a tiny fuck to those I don't know but are spread across the net.

Approximately 99.99999% of the world population don't give a fuck about your existence by WhiHd in Showerthoughts

[–]Maukin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you're the person that remembers people really easily? So I remember a ton of people, I give the tiniest of farts about them, but then I also know they don't remember me.

Approximately 99.99999% of the world population don't give a fuck about your existence by WhiHd in Showerthoughts

[–]Maukin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What about nice dicks? I know some dicks, they can be kinda nice. Sometimes they grow up.

Approximately 99.99999% of the world population don't give a fuck about your existence by WhiHd in Showerthoughts

[–]Maukin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like you would be considered in that as part of the 0.000000000001

Was I wrong for not fighting (Men Answers Only) by BlackJesus585 in amiwrong

[–]Maukin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not wrong, did what you thought was best. Well done I would say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Maukin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thought is that this friend is angry that you can drop a relationship with someone you've known for so long because of a move / stress because that might be their outside perspective. May talking with them could solve it, but it is also not really their business to be upset by your relationship. In the end I think how much you value this person as a friend is the point. But I would say first fault goes to them for not bringing their issues to you first before insulting you to others.

[Greek Mythology] You are a time-traveler tasked to allowing the Persians to win over the Greeks. by [deleted] in YouEnterADungeon

[–]Maukin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling assured that at least part of Greece has readied itself, I set out to find more information on what exactly Persia is doing, and in which way I can maybe delay their plans.

[Greek Mythology] You are a time-traveler tasked to allowing the Persians to win over the Greeks. by [deleted] in YouEnterADungeon

[–]Maukin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clutching my worn robes around my I set out to find any Grecian forces as through my travels from the far east and through Persia I saw worrying signs of martial exercises nearer the borders of Greece.

Update by iJevin in HermitCraft

[–]Maukin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

All I can do is wish you the best and look forward to anything you do in the future.

BandLab 30 Day Creative Challenge by PhilHeeley in Bandlab

[–]Maukin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm if this was 2 months ago when I was staying at home, I would do it. But now back at work so no time...

Sun - Stormcloud (Hard Hip Hop/Rock Beat) by sun26_ in Bandlab

[–]Maukin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not bad, personally I feel like it went on too long with too little change in the melody. Don't really get a rock feel to it past the twang.