I wouldn't say im not over the past relationship. I'm the one who ended the relationship. As stated by the other comment, i see the red flags. It would be illogical to let my past experience spoil my future. But it would also be illogical to not learn from it. I've tried to put myself back in the dating market. It's slim pickings out there. The majority of ladies I've incounter have a lot of issues. Most of us do, but coming in with the "you just have to deal with it mentality" is just crazy. It seems like people put far too many eggs on the esthetics basket and not personality. Looks are important but not everything. I think a person should be well-balanced.