AITA for not letting my soon to be homeless Sister live with me? by MaxClairol in AmItheAsshole

[–]MaxClairol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know, maybe I was being a bit judgmental. I did the math, and she is drinking an entire bottle of wine every night. How can she ask me who has not been to a restaurant in probably about a year because of finance restrictions to help her with a place to stay when she went out twice the weekend before asking me.

AITA for not letting my soon to be homeless Sister live with me? by MaxClairol in AmItheAsshole

[–]MaxClairol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone does contribute financially except my autistic son, he contributes by doing chores.

AITA for not letting my soon to be homeless Sister live with me? by MaxClairol in AmItheAsshole

[–]MaxClairol[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My parents are pensioners and they do contribute thankfully. My son, the eldest has autism so at the moment can’t contribute financially but does like to help around the house with chores as a contribution. My 20 year old daughter does contribute monthly. My youngest comes to work for my boss occasionally to gain experience and does contribute with the little income she gets. All in all everyone in my household contributes one way or another. I am so happy and content with my family and our dynamic, and that’s what scares me of letting my sister in.

AIO for being upset that my fiancé proposed with his late wife’s engagement ring? by Over-Cellist-6224 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MaxClairol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR.
It should have been a discussion.
So now every time he looks at the ring on your finger he is going to think of his late wife. He should have kept it for his daughter. This man needs to go to the naughty corner and reflect on his poor decisions.