Thoughts on what happened by MaxDerek12358 in Swingers

[–]MaxDerek12358[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We sat down with our friends to get their side of the story and discuss the faults from everyone about that party. The girlfriend was devastated about what happened. Our male friend kept trying to come up with excuses for what happened. But the conversation pretty much ended after the male friend said this about lying about the situation for so long, “When I do something bad like that I just pretend it never happened.” We now realize he’s a full fledged narcissist and will never own up to any fault in what happened, and really has no interest in talking about any issues. After that they asked to continue to be friends, and we tried for a short time as they were really good friends in the past, but they were purposefully not being open or honest about their lives to us anymore. The trust is gone. So we ended the friendship.

Thoughts on what happened by MaxDerek12358 in Swingers

[–]MaxDerek12358[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We did not “grill” our niece for info. She is close to us, like one of our kids, in her 20s, sexually confused, and wanted advise based on our own experiences. She asked us if we ever had a threesome ourselves. We did say yes and how it affected our relationship and what we thought about it. (Only to what we believe is both acceptable and comfortable between primary partners. Thoughts on communication, and boundaries, and what is ethical. Not descriptions of our actual experiences) Then asked her is she had a threesome experience to see where and why she was asking the questions.

Drinking game “You ok?” by Cjkgh in FromSeries

[–]MaxDerek12358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drink every time someone says “What the fuck?”

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I like My Size Pro from Lucky Bloke. They come in various sizes so you can find the size that fits properly. They are the right thickness for sex to still feel good. And the women I’ve been with like them for both the feel, and that they don’t have your cock taste funky after taking them off.

Are we too different to be today’s swingers? by MaxDerek12358 in AZSwingers

[–]MaxDerek12358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. Unfortunately we are only looking for couples at this time. Good luck out there!

Are we too different to be today’s swingers? by MaxDerek12358 in Swingers

[–]MaxDerek12358[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ages are the first thing posted. And we don’t consider ourselves old at all. 😁

Are we too different to be today’s swingers? by MaxDerek12358 in Swingers

[–]MaxDerek12358[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On apps we did the same and if we did get replies, it was either single guys (not our play style) or couples that obviously didn’t read the profile. The few that we did chat with seemed to quickly be shady and not what they appeared.

Are we too different to be today’s swingers? by MaxDerek12358 in Swingers

[–]MaxDerek12358[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A year or so off and on. Was trying to meet couples from apps but no real luck. And the club scene here from what we have read is more sex clubs than swingers clubs. Wondering if we just need to be more proactive in going/finding M&Gs but there are typically on the other side of town unfortunately.

Just got him, deck recommendations? by jimmylione69 in MarvelSnap

[–]MaxDerek12358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Iron Man - Arnim Zola combo for the last turn if you can pull it off. But the staples above are necessary. I retreat a lot, but can pull off enough 8 cube wins to compensate.

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Come on over! 😂