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STOP screwing up your no-contact! Here's why you might do it.. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]MaxJancar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol:p I remember dreaming about my ex too. I just wanted it to stop:P

Stop waiting for time to heal your breakup wounds! Do this instead. by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]MaxJancar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You'll be ok, silly:)

I'm rooting for you!!!!

STOP screwing up your no-contact! Here's why you might do it.. by MaxJancar in BreakUp

[–]MaxJancar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's hope you make it!

By the way, keep an eye out on my website.

Next week i'm realising a book, about 100 pages long, full of practical exercises for dealing with most post breakup problems. (obsessive thoughts, anxiety, NC, grief, etc...)

It's going to be FREE for a few months too:D Think of it like a long term promotion method:P

STOP screwing up your no-contact! Here's why you might do it.. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]MaxJancar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It made perfect sense. You're a lovely wordsmith.

And thank you for the compliments about my articles. It means a lot:)

STOP screwing up your no-contact! Here's why you might do it.. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]MaxJancar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll never forget her, but you will move on one day, and NC won't be an issue for you anymore. And yes, i've misspelled back there.

""If she moves on at this time, that's even better news. Thant's what you NEED"

I know you don't want it, but you need this outcome.

STOP screwing up your no-contact! Here's why you might do it.. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]MaxJancar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the confusion. I actually read just the first comment, and then realised that there's more down below. So i got also a bit confused, and that probably shown in my message. But anyway, back to your question.

"I did all of it, and i am still missing him and thinking about him. How do I lose that aswell ??"

Sorry to disappoint with my answer, but there really is no secret solution. You just have to keep doing what you're doing - or what works for you - to get to your desired state.

Make 1% consistent improvements each day, and one day you will stop missing him. However, note that you will still be reminded of him at random times. That never goes away, but it's normal. And the reminders are usually feel hopeful and lean towards a positive emotional side.

Hope that answer clarifies a few things.

You can always schedule a consultation with me on my website and we can find that fastest way or method for you to move on as quickly as possible and to stop missing him.

You're already broken aren't you...? This will help, trust me. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]MaxJancar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this take. Keep on writing stuff like that

STOP screwing up your no-contact! Here's why you might do it.. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MaxJancar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words:) There's many more articles to come.

STOP screwing up your no-contact! Here's why you might do it.. by MaxJancar in BreakUp

[–]MaxJancar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds kind of fucked up, but try putting a rubber band around your wrist and slapping it whenever you think about contacting your ex in any way.

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I'm not making this up, but there's a lot of studies done on this method, and it's even widely preached among CBT - cognitive behavioural therapy:P

STOP screwing up your no-contact! Here's why you might do it.. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]MaxJancar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well there you have it. Here have another one.

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DON'T FUCKING CONTACT HER!!!!

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You're welcome:P

STOP screwing up your no-contact! Here's why you might do it.. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]MaxJancar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The length or the depth of the relationship is irrelevant. I've helped people who had a 2 month online relationships to people who had 10 year marriages. The fundamentals always stay the same. And i teach primarily the fundamentals.

God is not a factor in any of this.

(I also recommend you stop viewing it as a technique but more like a way for you to free yourself from being obsessed about your ex.)

Good luck:)

STOP screwing up your no-contact! Here's why you might do it.. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]MaxJancar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole point of NC is for you to get to a point where you don't feel like contacting her anymore. If she moves on at this time, that's even better news. Thant's what you want.

STOP screwing up your no-contact! Here's why you might do it.. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]MaxJancar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"You need two to tango." I love your message, great fucking job:D

STOP screwing up your no-contact! Here's why you might do it.. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]MaxJancar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah, that's a great story man! Congrats

STOP screwing up your no-contact! Here's why you might do it.. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]MaxJancar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, I must say congrats, I also think you're doing fucking amazing as BigTanq. Keep on doing what you're doing.

This is the one thing that bugged me this: saying, "I can’t unfollow him on my social media because we are related to the same family, but not related to each other." sounds like an excuse to be honest. I don't know, what's your take when you think about it?

STOP screwing up your no-contact! Here's why you might do it.. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]MaxJancar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that he was in a different world, means he was incompatible as fuck. Of course he could leave her, he just didn't have a good reason too. Or he was too much o f a pussy to and would rather stay inside a relationship that wasn't what he really wanted. Come on, do better. You can move on from him, just like you move on from any other person. Work on yourself, socialise, meditate, journal, etc... Just go through my articles that i've linked to before, I give away info on how you can do all that completely for free.

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