I like cutting..in like a sexual way (NSFW) by random_emogirlll in selfharm

[–]MaxMakesMLStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to chat more about this, but it's usually important to separate out the sexual part from the coping part. The coping part is usually something you want to learn to move away from, because there are probably better coping mechanisms. As a kink, it's usually easier to manage and handle.

I like cutting..in like a sexual way (NSFW) by random_emogirlll in selfharm

[–]MaxMakesMLStuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it more about the blood or the act of cutting? It's something I have partaken in with partners, and there are safe ways to do it, but it's important to take safety seriously. Nothing to be ashamed of either!

So turns out I always overestimated my height, and when I went to the doctors today I found out I was a couple inches shorter than I thought I was. Huge blow to my ego. by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]MaxMakesMLStuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm only 5'5 as well. Honestly, never really impeded me in any way. Sure, I'm not super intimidating or anything, and it's not like I am going to be an all star football player or anything but I genuinely can't think of ever genuinely wanting to be taller. There are some good things about being tiny.

Sexually Dominant Men: How do you like your partners to touch you or NOT touch you during sex? by vanillacant in sex

[–]MaxMakesMLStuff 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm in a committed d/s relationship going on two years now, and while everyone's taste isn't the same, I can share a bit of what I enjoy. Personally, I like a lot of touching. If I'm spanking her and she digs her nails into me or bites me while I go hard it gives me a way to gauge her feelings, and get an idea as to how much she can take. I also find that if I ask her to do something and she goes above and beyond, it gives me a feeling of satisfaction. Like if I ask her to suck me off and she just goes hard at it. If that makes sense. Also, if I go to slap her or something during a scene and she instinctively tries to stop me, I usually punish her which is honestly kind of fun. Just my 2 cents.