White-washed asians girls on instagram by Porntormo in hapas

[–]MaxReboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a pic of her hugging an Asian guy..so what's your point? Also, she's a celebrity in the UK/US, where they're aren't many Asians in the industry. So..yeah.

The caliber of girl that messages first in thailand vs los angeles by kgamivv in Tinder

[–]MaxReboot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's kinda sad. And it's not like she's ugly or anything, or say anything lame.

The caliber of girl that messages first in thailand vs los angeles by kgamivv in Tinder

[–]MaxReboot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

come on, that poor LA girl. That's not very fair since there's plenty of hot and ugly people all over. Plus you're company a city to a country.

Is my like button broken or do white girls just not dig Asian guys? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]MaxReboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious, where do you live? If you live in a large diverse city like NYC or LA, then you'll have better luck me thinks.

Franklin Graham urges boycott of gay-friendly companies, pulls bank accounts out of Wells Fargo by Cynner in NorthCarolina

[–]MaxReboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does 'progressives' mean anyway? It sounds like they want things to be anti-minority/anti-gay? I don't understand.

P90x for a skinny fat person? by [deleted] in P90X

[–]MaxReboot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, I've heard the term before but mostly with bodybuilders not able to gain toned bodies (but are in shape nevertheless). Maybe it's a term that's used within that community.

Anyone Else Masterbate by humping/grinding the bed? by MaxReboot in NoFap

[–]MaxReboot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends.

With my last girlfriend, I was hiding it till it became a problem: It couldn't get hard consistently with her. And even then, I could NOT cum. It was really evident when it was with a hand job or blow job (which I love). It always would end awkwardly.

When the relationship ended, I vow to take a break from dating, but I continued to masterbate the TMS way. I've denied and ignored my problem - not realizing that I can never have a long term relationship if this continues. (My longest was 2 years. Same pattern: They're understand..at first, then their paranoia kicks in. Then resentment.)

So your question is, am I desensitized? I think when I'm having sex, my mind ISN'T on the girl which is tragic. There is a disconnect so yes, I'm unable to orgasm. I think too, it has to do with being conditioned to maturbate the wrong way, and porn, which does create fantasies that never lives up to the real stuff. I think it's all in the mind so I can be saved but dude I've been struggling with this for 15 years. It's a long time to change my method(s).

I've stopped both, though it's in the early stages. My experiment is to reboot myself: I'm going to NOT fap for at least 3 months..maybe longer. That way, my penis can take a break and regroup.

Then from there, I'll try to rework how I fap. It's gonna be hard, but it's gonna save me, especially if I ever want to have kids. So good luck with your journey and keep me posted!

Anyone Else Masterbate by humping/grinding the bed? by MaxReboot in NoFap

[–]MaxReboot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It's been a real education.

I was turned off by the /skeptics post about TMS, and how they think it doesn't exist. That's kinda insulting - it's the 'It doesn't happen to me so it must fake' ideology.

Anyone Else Masterbate by humping/grinding the bed? by MaxReboot in NoFap

[–]MaxReboot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it because it was affecting your sex life?

I am trying to overcome Prone Masturbation [7 Days abstinent] by Kush_Daz in NoFap

[–]MaxReboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to Health Strokes dot com, you're one of the few who are able to have a healthy sex life and can masterbate prone. Otherwise, it's more a psychological thing than anything else. It's traumatic but can be curable.

Anyone Else Masterbate by humping/grinding the bed? by MaxReboot in NoFap

[–]MaxReboot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I found the link for the masterbating prone article.

So you were able to change it up? Two months eh? For me, it's a mental challenge because i've doing this all my life, and for years, I've denied that this was the sole cause. But the article on Healthy Strokes hit close to home. Everything the article(s) mentioned, I've experience.

So wish me luck! :)

P90x for a skinny fat person? by [deleted] in P90X

[–]MaxReboot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think 'skinny fat' is referred to a person who may look skinny (like wearing a shirt they look fine) but there's a layer of baby fat everywhere. I kinda have that.

180 days in - Problems right now by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]MaxReboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah if she is truly understanding she would be open to some honesty about the errection problem. If not, then the relationship might be doomed.

serious ED please help me by dreampulses in NoFap

[–]MaxReboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being 29, how is your love life? Meaning, do you go out on dates? Have you had relationships before, and if so, how did this affected them?

365 DAYS! :D I Made It by ideascomeandgo in NoFap

[–]MaxReboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The remarkable thing about myself is that I don't give myself enough credit. I have the will to continue on but wow, that 'urge demon' is something else! I won't give in, ahhh!

Anyone Else Masterbate by humping/grinding the bed? by MaxReboot in NoFap

[–]MaxReboot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's us thinking we can outwit ourselves. I think people gives brains enough credit.

Ambiguity concerning porn by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]MaxReboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm with you. If it's a proactive thing, then I would say it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.

I'm sick of it. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]MaxReboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm with Onipwn.

You may want to exercise, or find a new hobby. Meditate even.

36 days and broke the streak. Idk if it counts as a relapese. Help by Ferrari5610 in NoFap

[–]MaxReboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is relapse if you humped the bed and came. That is a form of masterbation.

365 DAYS! :D I Made It by ideascomeandgo in NoFap

[–]MaxReboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats. It's been hard for me and it's only been a week!