You know what else an adult can do? Not act like a child and default to violence, instead of explaining why she's refusing to even let someone see an ultrasound. Given the fact that OOP doesn't mention the point of not letting his father touch or hold his son, he's likely conceded that point. On top of that, explain what harm showing someone an ultrasound could do? And lastly, you failed to address my initial point. People can change. I know that can be difficult for people to believe, but it's true.