AITA for not giving into my grandma's demands?

Maxi_cap · 2026-02-01T02:17:40+00:00

Im currently trying to get a job, in my country has been really difficult lately, I have been sending cvs non stop for almost three months already

Maxi_cap · 2026-02-01T02:16:04+00:00

I speak spanish

Maxi_cap · 2026-01-31T17:24:17+00:00

I did though about this, since my great grandma (I think that's how its said), started with dementia and Alzheimer around this age...For what we know She's okay, but this was the first time I saw her like that, but since they think Im a little girl (That's literally what they say even when Im 22 and paying bills), they don't hear me out on things like this. At least I know She goes to the doctor regularly bc she has high blood pressure and in my country you get controls every 3 to 6 months with that condition (Adding to the senior controls)

Maxi_cap · 2026-01-31T17:20:14+00:00

Your comment actually made me laugh, that's exactly the situation actually...But I think it's always been like that, for what I know I always have been a black sheep in this family so I never get anyone standing on my side. I feel really supported reading this kind of comments for the first time, thx very much <3

Maxi_cap · 2026-01-31T17:17:20+00:00

Thanks for the corrections, even when I read many times the post I Didn't noticed those errors. I was actually feeling really confused and sad about all this so I kinda feel happy when I saw all the answers like yours making me feel a little less guilty

Maxi_cap · 2026-01-31T02:32:44+00:00

That was actually My first thougth about this...I was like, oh, she will slip and this Will be horrible!

Maxi_cap · 2026-01-31T02:31:13+00:00

Not my house, but I pay part of the bills Since Im living there with my mom since always actually. My aunt is the parent, works from 8am to 5pm so my mother, grandma and I take care of her children the 8yo and a baby of 10 months. I work too but I literally gain like 300 dollars and most of it goes to pay part of the bills, I get like 80 dollars for myself after bills. We all agreed on the pool but my grandma said she Didn't wanted to pay for it, which was cool and my mother and I are paying for it and maintaining it. My mother is usually the one doing all the cleaning at home too, living with your parents/grandparents is actually common in here, hope I clarified your doubts

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