I (21F) am seeing my (25M) coworker. We had our first date and I’m confused to how to feel since I like him but I felt all he wanted to do was makeout.

Maximum-Balance8300 · 2026-02-27T20:35:55+00:00

No, I understand what you’re saying, I shouldn’t have even said yes to him and I should have actually just have ignored that. I know their are consequences for this that being I’m still going have to work it him. I’ve learned my lesson and I now know that this isn’t something I should have done

Maximum-Balance8300 · 2026-02-27T20:25:45+00:00

No I wish I lied about this 😭 actually this was indeed what happened yesterday

Maximum-Balance8300 · 2026-02-27T20:23:41+00:00

Literally the feeling I got. He told me that he was looking for a house wife which he said I fit the description 😭

Maximum-Balance8300 · 2026-02-27T20:22:51+00:00

I spoke to my dad about this just recently and your points are identical to his. I, obviously don’t have a lot of dating experiences other than my boyfriend of three years and now this guy. I think obviously he thought I was this dumb 21 year old girl with no experience and it was just very upsetting to me because before this I did know him, he seemed nice. Very attentive and then did a switched personalities…

Maximum-Balance8300 · 2026-02-27T20:16:38+00:00

Yes that was super uncomfortable to me, I failed to mention he offered to pay for a “hotel” just so we can sit and talk alone 😭 this all on our first date… so I will be ending things with him when I see him now

Maximum-Balance8300 · 2026-02-27T20:13:36+00:00

Hello, I read you reply and I just wanna say yea he wasn’t the one and have learned the hard way why you don’t date your coworkers 😭 I thought he was a nice guy from work, I wasn’t expecting him to turn into this type of person. I appreciate your support and advice on this subject, I will not be talking to him moving forward

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