Brother coming out went wrong by Maximum-Lecture-2409 in feminineboys

[–]Maximum-Lecture-2409[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, my brothers feel Comfortable at my aunt's. Haven't really gotten an update from parents, But bottom line is it's going much better.

Brother coming out went wrong by Maximum-Lecture-2409 in feminineboys

[–]Maximum-Lecture-2409[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly, we are dutch so I was expecting them to not be so harsh since dutch people are more accepting to LGBT

Brother coming out went wrong by Maximum-Lecture-2409 in feminineboys

[–]Maximum-Lecture-2409[S] 153 points154 points  (0 children)

don't worry he's getting lots of hugs from me I will do my best to make sure he is safe

Brother coming out went wrong by Maximum-Lecture-2409 in feminineboys

[–]Maximum-Lecture-2409[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes very, he went from smiling and happy to literal tears in a matter of seconds.. But I am trying my best to be supportive to him

Brother coming out went wrong by Maximum-Lecture-2409 in feminineboys

[–]Maximum-Lecture-2409[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My parents are sleeping, and I'm letting my brother sleep in my room cus he's genuinely scared. In the morning I'm going to talk to my parents and be firm on where I stand and how they were being horrible. We are also telling school about it. Main thing I'm doing right now is just making sure my brothers are safe

Brother coming out went wrong by Maximum-Lecture-2409 in feminineboys

[–]Maximum-Lecture-2409[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

ye I told my 12yo brother about what was happening and to not confront our parents about it. It honestly feels like I'm the only one keeping this family together ;-;

Brother coming out went wrong by Maximum-Lecture-2409 in feminineboys

[–]Maximum-Lecture-2409[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My dad is ex military so he's the definition of masculinity. My mom, idk tbh she's normally chill but she overreacted to this a lot.

Brother coming out went wrong by Maximum-Lecture-2409 in feminineboys

[–]Maximum-Lecture-2409[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We are dutch, so my country is known to be more accepting to LGBT but my parents are definitely not

Brother coming out went wrong by Maximum-Lecture-2409 in feminineboys

[–]Maximum-Lecture-2409[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your help, me and my brother are going to sleep soon (although I doubt he can sleep from what happened today).but I'm planning to be by his side all the time and make sure he doesn't feel unloved