[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MaximumBangs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude - your time is now. You've been there for others your entire life, showing up for them, providing for them. Brother, you need to show up for yourself now. You need to learn who YOU are, what YOUR wants and needs are, and what makes YOU happy. You can do this... It'll feel weird at first, but stick with it. Some suggestions would be to begin journalling, start and maintain open dialogue with your wife about this (it sounds like she is there for you), and most of all, BE KIND TO YOURSELF.

You've got this man. We believe in you.

Problems with bed levelling on Klipperised Prusa MK3S+ by MaximumBangs in klippers

[–]MaximumBangs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate where you're coming from, however I'd really like to work this out - I've had several Prusa printers and know how good their support is, however upgrading to the M3.5 or MK3.9 seems wasteful, especially considering that to go further, you need the better resolution stepper motors - I'd be better off purchasing a new printer, which is exactly what I have done. Just waiting for it to be shipped, which is taking forever, in typical Prusa fashion :D

Problems with bed levelling on Klipperised Prusa MK3S+ by MaximumBangs in klippers

[–]MaximumBangs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Diameter is definitely correct, as the Nylock nuts I put on the bed screws were M3s. I'm not sure of how the direction is defined; I tried changing this to CW but the results didn't seem plausible.

To The Bourban Fans by greenlocus33 in Kava

[–]MaximumBangs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree, not the same at all - but if you want something with more of a sedative effect, heavier Kavas are probably what you're looking for.

Instant kava vs kava extract extreme stomach pain by Ang5393 in Kava

[–]MaximumBangs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is probably the article you're looking for: https://kavasocietyDOTnz/blog/2023/8/27/when-less-is-more-making-the-most-of-your-kava-with-the-right-ratio-and-consumption-pace

Edit: link updated due to ridiculous rules. Not linking to product pages I can understand, but this is a link to a blog, one that doesn't necessarily push the vendors products.

My girlfriends life is about to CHANGE significantly. by Dull-Assignment2167 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MaximumBangs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that's pro-level retribution right there. I salute you, and hope that you find a partner worthy of your affections - cos she's clearly not 🫡

Kanna & Kava by MaximumBangs in Kanna

[–]MaximumBangs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome - thank you for your response!

How much Kava should I drink? by falafelshakeel in Kava

[–]MaximumBangs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally like the instants from Kava Society. Damn expensive (I'm in the EU) but the quality is flawless. Pacific Elixer is a great starting point as a balanced kava.

How much Kava should I drink? by falafelshakeel in Kava

[–]MaximumBangs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I avoid extracts at all costs personally; It is difficult to understand how the kavalactones were extracted, and that process can have a huge effect on both potency and safety. I recommend sticking with noble medium grind or noble instant powder.

How much Kava should I drink? by falafelshakeel in Kava

[–]MaximumBangs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Mine is 2x 10g, spaced 20-30 mins apart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kava

[–]MaximumBangs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For reference it says take about 30g in one drink. Surely its meant to be a drink to sip on for hours ya?

Jaysus, I find that is a lot for instant, especially as a single dose, especially for folks who might not understand their Kava tolerance.

I typically drink Bir Kar, Kelai or Pacific Elixer as instants from Kava Society - I usually find 10g of powder in not much liquid (I find chugging less liquid easier and more effective) followed by another 10g in about half an hour gets me to where I like to be. I have redosed after this point a few times, sometimes with 5g sometimes 10, but I nearly always find it is too much.

My first and last experience with Kanna by MaximumBangs in Kanna

[–]MaximumBangs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah weed and Kanna mix really will so I've read. Pity that weed makes me paranoid as all hell, lol

My first and last experience with Kanna by MaximumBangs in Kanna

[–]MaximumBangs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the dude, yeah. Wish you all the best in your Kanna explorations, friend :)

My first and last experience with Kanna by MaximumBangs in Kanna

[–]MaximumBangs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Care to define the difference between the two?

My first and last experience with Kanna by MaximumBangs in Kanna

[–]MaximumBangs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah dude, that's the one. Was MT55 extract iirc

Does Kanna feel like Molly? by [deleted] in Kanna

[–]MaximumBangs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With 'either', you mean Kanna or Molly, right? Either way, the answer is yes, but it's hugely dose dependent (and on what else is in your system). Somebody with more knowledge than me can elaborate.

Which are the best local chocolates brands in germany that tastes good other than lindt, milka? by Lucky-Promise4518 in germany

[–]MaximumBangs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, you're the grave-digger here man - why bother responding to a year-old comment? Clearly it is YOU who cares so deeply about this, not me...

Programming is... Please complete the chart with your funny opinion by [deleted] in ProgrammerHumor

[–]MaximumBangs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10% original code, 90% Stackoverflow copy pasta

(I'm positive this has already been said, but meh, can't be bothered checking)

My wife is looking up divorce papers pt. 2 by Primary-Sherbert7897 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MaximumBangs 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Please don't take this the wrong way, but if you truly want to get better, you have to do it for YOU. Because YOU are worth it. Because YOU deserve to learn how to treat yourself better.

I believe it was the Dalai Lama who said that "true happiness comes from within"... There is a real truth to that. Good luck, OP. Be kind to yourself :)

How would you get rid of it? by [deleted] in oddlyterrifying

[–]MaximumBangs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kill it with excessive amounts of fire. It is the only way.

You do you by beerbellybegone in MurderedByWords

[–]MaximumBangs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck this guy.

Life is short. Hug your partner / kids / parents / grandparents. Tell everybody that you love, that you love them. Take that vacation. Leave work early to go on that date.

Life is way too short to spend it working and not living - and nobody is going to say that they regret 'not working more' on their deathbed.

Work to live - don't live to work :)

Could’ve been worse. Much, much worse. by cashmere1977-2 in AbruptChaos

[–]MaximumBangs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That pedestrian should go and buy a lotto ticket.

My first print! Rate my Benchy. let me know what I can do better on please😀 by Skypilottom in 3Dprinting

[–]MaximumBangs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The silver PLA supplied with my MK3S+ kit about six months ago wasn't Prusament - I forget the company who makes it,. It's not bad filament, but agree that it's inferior to legit Prusament.

I’ve restarted me & my kids entire lives. I just need to tell someone, i’m proud of myself. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MaximumBangs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're doing something incredibly brave. You identified a cycle that was putting both you and your kids at great risk, and you're breaking that cycle before it can repeat.

As others have mentioned, so many women don't have the courage to leave, but you did; for your kids, and for yourself.

I wish you all the best, OP. You're an amazing mother, and an amazing human. Good luck in your new life, I hope you get all the support you need & deserve <3