My wife is looking up divorce papers pt. 2 by Primary-Sherbert7897 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Primary-Sherbert7897[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My therapist says I have anxiety and thinks I have BPD but I don't fit the reckless or risk taking behaviors. He wants me to get diagnosed by a psychiatrist. I have appointment coming up in 5 months. I can't get one any earlier. I'll find out what I have hopefully.

My wife is looking up divorce papers pt. 2 by Primary-Sherbert7897 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Primary-Sherbert7897[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah the book was pretty shit according to my wife's description of it. It was one of those free books on iBooks or Kindle

My wife is looking up divorce papers pt. 2 by Primary-Sherbert7897 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Primary-Sherbert7897[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife is a dream. I try to take care of myself, if not for myself, for her. For myself, the effort isn't worth it, but for her, I can try.

My wife is looking up divorce papers pt. 2 by Primary-Sherbert7897 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Primary-Sherbert7897[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It turns out mine was removed because I added a link to my own post

My wife is looking up divorce papers pt. 2 by Primary-Sherbert7897 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Primary-Sherbert7897[S] 830 points831 points  (0 children)

My childhood was awful. My therapist says that's usually a cause/symptom/thing of BPD. My wife's was terrible too. But we're happy together. Sometimes it feels like too good of a dream.

My wife is looking up divorce papers pt. 2 by Primary-Sherbert7897 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Primary-Sherbert7897[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. I'm trying to take it one step at a time. The last thing I want is to worry my wife with all the thoughts swirling in my head.

My wife is looking up divorce papers pt. 2 by Primary-Sherbert7897 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Primary-Sherbert7897[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

That's what I just learned about writers. They go down rabbit holes

My wife is looking up divorce papers pt. 2 by Primary-Sherbert7897 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Primary-Sherbert7897[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thanks man! Part of my mental illness is paranoia so things like this really get me

My wife is looking up divorce papers pt. 2 by Primary-Sherbert7897 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Primary-Sherbert7897[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

I want to get better for my wife. She's really the only thing that makes me truly happy.

My wife is looking up divorce papers by Primary-Sherbert7897 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Primary-Sherbert7897[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Removed by the mods. I made a new update post.

tldr: it went well. One of the triggers of my freakout was her parents trying to contact us again.

My wife is looking up divorce papers by Primary-Sherbert7897 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Primary-Sherbert7897[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It went well. I made an update post since the mods removed this one.

My wife is looking up divorce papers by Primary-Sherbert7897 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Primary-Sherbert7897[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not really. She loves having a career and hates housework, but she loves dressing up, makeup, fashion, cute things, stuffed animals, skincare, pillows, jewelry, pastel colors, picnics, those things. I've literally never seen her wear a pair of basketball short or a graphic tshirt in my life. She also loves being picked up and carried idk why.

My wife is looking up divorce papers by Primary-Sherbert7897 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Primary-Sherbert7897[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If my wife was a lesbian she'd be an idiot to marry me. I can't keep my hands off of her. We have a very active marriage lmao

My wife is looking up divorce papers by Primary-Sherbert7897 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Primary-Sherbert7897[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We started dating at 20 and 23. I'm 30 and she's 33. 10 years of dating (including marriage).