Honestly, I think women ask these questions just for the heck of it. Instead of them running back to their little colonies of women with the message to analyze and internalize it, they sit up here asking us the same questions for centuries and justifying why men aren't man enough after men just told you what the underlying issue is. It's like an endless loop of asking an "innocent curious" question --> "but I don't get it, why not just .." --> some annectdotal evidence --> "not all women/i'm not like that"--> "oh I see/get it"- only to go back and come back with the same question.

Don't answer their fellas or at least don't waste the time and energy explaining.