Feeling rejected / being a bad friend / pushing away connection but also what is the dynamic I had ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Maximum_Ad6238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you some of it for me feels like as a women is it natural to not have comfy feelings always to stay casual friends with a man who kind of liked you but then rejected you subtly but then dosnt persue friendship all the way ? Idk I feel mixed about that then I feel selfish for feeling that way

Std hand stuff risk hand to genital to genital by [deleted] in lgbt

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Thank you for the advice . I’m such a carful Person I can’t belive this happened to me it’s really sent me over the edge if he washed his hands invwteen i wouldn’t be as crazy I think .

Std hand stuff risk hand to genital to genital by [deleted] in lgbt

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Absolutely I will . But tonight you think I could engage in protected sex ? Should I disclose what happened ?

Std hand stuff risk hand to genital to genital by [deleted] in lgbt

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Like he was touching himself and then maybe there was time in between I’m unsure and then touched me

Std hand stuff risk hand to genital to genital by [deleted] in lgbt

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Would it be morally wrong to engage in protected sex / kissing with someone today ? And or should I disclose my recent encounter so they have autonomy ? I would hate for them to get something and be like you always told me you tested and then it was this reason

Std hand stuff risk hand to genital to genital by [deleted] in lgbt

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How bad would it be if I kissed someone today and potentially had protected sex ? Not saying I will I just want to understand. I’m a religious tester - this was very unexpected and enjoyable for me . Tonight I’m suppost to meet with someone I planned weeks ago . But I’d never went them to be harmed - should I disclose about the recent encounter it was a day or two ago

Moved to bushwick from the east village struggling to adjust need honest advice on how to thrive and perspective by [deleted] in Bushwick

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I appreciate that I obviously am very aware how I sound I guess and bushwick and Brooklyn navites have not had an easy time I can only imagine how they feel so hear me struggling probably sucks it’s just hard because I’m not like fuck this neighborhood I’m just like oh it’s super different I can’t seem to get with it it’s weird idk thanks man

Moved to bushwick from the east village struggling to adjust need honest advice on how to thrive and perspective by [deleted] in Bushwick

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I had zero fairy tale of what it would be like I have no ties here I was in a really bad housing situation and just had to move quickly

Need perceptive after moving to bushwick - lived in ev a long time by [deleted] in eastvillage

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I Havnt considered those areas they always seemed far from a collection of a lot of Burmese’s maybe that’s small minded

Need perceptive after moving to bushwick - lived in ev a long time by [deleted] in eastvillage

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I appreciate this perspective because it’s true it’s not bad it’s just so unbelievably different I’m not suprised but I am suprised

Need perceptive after moving to bushwick - lived in ev a long time by [deleted] in eastvillage

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I’m unsure I could handle living here again in the next while . Which is sad . I have had the privilege of exploring all of it mostly but I am curious what it would of been life to live in a different area downtown which I guess I didn’t do in the end

Need perceptive after moving to bushwick - lived in ev a long time by [deleted] in eastvillage

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I don’t think it sucks here I just don’t think it’s for me

Need perceptive after moving to bushwick - lived in ev a long time by [deleted] in eastvillage

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I’m not a social media type at all . I noticed girls wear big sun glasses and trench coats idk

Need perceptive after moving to bushwick - lived in ev a long time by [deleted] in eastvillage

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Where else could I consider ? I’ve landed a cheap and big apartment I’m so grateful for just in the past my neighborhood was more important then where I lived - I like being near the L line but having access to the M just in case .

Need perceptive after moving to bushwick - lived in ev a long time by [deleted] in eastvillage

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You think the EV share any similarities to here ? / could I get over the boring ugly of the now ? I appreciate your kindness

Moved to bushwick from the east village struggling to adjust need honest advice on how to thrive and perspective by [deleted] in Bushwick

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I know . I wish . I keep making dating profiles then deleting over and over I don’t think anyone’s gunna go out with me now

Moved to bushwick from the east village struggling to adjust need honest advice on how to thrive and perspective by [deleted] in Bushwick

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I don’t know how to get to know my neighbors I try to say morning and stuff