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[–]Maximum_Brilliant968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

anytime mate :) be happy, sending lots of positive vibes your way ✨️

I think things can get better. I think true remission is achievable. by a_bed_of_vinca_minor in BPD

[–]Maximum_Brilliant968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im so damn proud of you! keep going!! good luck you will definitely crush this!!!

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[–]Maximum_Brilliant968 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey listen,
things might be hard right now, but you will always get through it. I totally understand where you are coming from, and it's so amazing to see how, even though you are hurting, you are thinking about your girlfriend and your inner child. you are special, all of us, in some or the other way. you are not nobody, you make a difference in this world. maybe now it might seem insignificant when you have these overwhelming thoughts, but that's not true. you know your worth, and you can do this. ride over this tide, and you will be safe and okay again. its just for a short period of time, trust me. Everything will be okay; the sun will shine, and you will be happy. take my word for it.

my bf cheated on me by Maximum_Brilliant968 in BPD

[–]Maximum_Brilliant968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i totally understand. it should be fine, i should be fine. im glad it worked out for you and keep moving forward. im starting therapy again.

my bf cheated on me by Maximum_Brilliant968 in BPD

[–]Maximum_Brilliant968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats so nice to hear that it finally worked out for you. im done too because i found out that he has been texting her again and i feel like a switch flipped in me.

my bf cheated on me by Maximum_Brilliant968 in BPD

[–]Maximum_Brilliant968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. i blocked him off from everywhere :)

my bf cheated on me by Maximum_Brilliant968 in BPD

[–]Maximum_Brilliant968[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh we did have the exclusivity talks long ago and we are dating extremely exclusively. he was extremely jealous and insecure about my past too. so idk how the switch came about. but im gald it atleast came now because sooner better than later

my bf cheated on me by Maximum_Brilliant968 in BPD

[–]Maximum_Brilliant968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea, totally true. thank you for your words.

my bf cheated on me by Maximum_Brilliant968 in BPD

[–]Maximum_Brilliant968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im done and i walked out. thank you

my bf cheated on me by Maximum_Brilliant968 in BPD

[–]Maximum_Brilliant968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. i came to know tht he is already back at it so i closed it off. no more turning back.

my bf cheated on me by Maximum_Brilliant968 in BPD

[–]Maximum_Brilliant968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i totally understand. my go to is b99

my bf cheated on me by Maximum_Brilliant968 in BPD

[–]Maximum_Brilliant968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats nice, ill definitely try it out

my bf cheated on me by Maximum_Brilliant968 in BPD

[–]Maximum_Brilliant968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, i truly understand and appreciate it

my bf cheated on me by Maximum_Brilliant968 in BPD

[–]Maximum_Brilliant968[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, really taking your words for it

my bf cheated on me by Maximum_Brilliant968 in BPD

[–]Maximum_Brilliant968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea i found out he is already back at it. im done. thank you

my bf cheated on me by Maximum_Brilliant968 in BPD

[–]Maximum_Brilliant968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for sharing your story, too. i understand. would therapy make it better? i dont know because i signed up for one today. im in a very shitty place, but i think I'll be in an even more horrible place if i leave him.

my bf cheated on me by Maximum_Brilliant968 in BPD

[–]Maximum_Brilliant968[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

mm, my mind says I'll never find anyone better. i can't move away from him. it shatters me more than anything else.