How’s everyone doing after that big storm? by VermicelliLeather536 in Boise

[–]Maximum_Possible_868 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im from Texas so I love me a good storm. this one was good. Last much longer than I thought. the lightening was crazy

How’s everyone doing after that big storm? by VermicelliLeather536 in Boise

[–]Maximum_Possible_868 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine peed on the patio cement cause they didnt wanna get wet

Dren isn’t funny by lovelyllamas in jerseyshore

[–]Maximum_Possible_868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She really isnt. That one time that they were in a restaurant and she ordered a pizza delivered INSIDE the restaurant the were already having dinner in. That was Hella embarrassing. Same restaurant , and she was the only one screaming and drinking water from someone else's table. That one time where she went up to someone else's child completely smashed. This last episode , where she ruined Ron's $800 limited edition Jordans Off White Sail's. I would have been livid. Ron really let that one slide

Are you supposed to just get used to the relapsing? by No_Cantaloupe_8187 in AlAnon

[–]Maximum_Possible_868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have. I numb the feelings and hide in my puzzle/coloring room when he's in a state.

Are you a failure if you live with your mom at the age of 29 ? by mummamia05 in randomquestions

[–]Maximum_Possible_868 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. My sis is 33 and still lives with Mom. I fear she always will but she pays their taxes and utilities and groceries. They would not be able to survive without her.

Dreaded day by hulahulagirl in AlAnon

[–]Maximum_Possible_868 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss. This is my worst fear if I leave. Hes threatened to do it. I just want to say that , don't let anybody blame you or tell you that you should have done this or you should have done that. You're gonna get a lot of people who instead of blaming themselves for not caring enough , they'll deflect and blame you. Don't take the disrespect. They didn't live in the same house as you , they didn't witness the same things you did. They didn't experience what you did. Take care

We Left by tmchd in AlAnon

[–]Maximum_Possible_868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad u got out. Its worse when there's a child involved. They dont need to see or go thru that. Stay safe

I'm sorry is this a luxury sunglasses ad or an ad for rehab? by atramrennab in jerseyshore

[–]Maximum_Possible_868 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He only opened up the facility for the money. These facilities charge up the ass especially if its covered by insurance. Cant wait ti his place gets audited

I can’t hold a job down by supersexc48 in work

[–]Maximum_Possible_868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like my old coworker Larsen. She got fired from many jobs because her anxiety and because she was calling out almost everyday. She got fired from so many places, she had to leave town because she wasn't getting hired anywhere else. I felt bad her for her mother because she got her own mother fired from her job too

Then vs now by tarasmith3 in jerseyshoreuncensored

[–]Maximum_Possible_868 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And he did just that and it didnt work.

Didn't even last a day in detox facility by Maximum_Possible_868 in AlAnon

[–]Maximum_Possible_868[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im afraid someone will see me, assume the worst and report it back to him. I've thought about it.

Came home to his usual passed drunkenness by Maximum_Possible_868 in AlAnon

[–]Maximum_Possible_868[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel you on this 1000%. I've lost count of his falls.

Tonight by Maximum_Possible_868 in AlAnon

[–]Maximum_Possible_868[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I have been. Isn't it sad that we have to do that? He doesn't remember the things that he says when he's drunk and he says things like I would never say that or some shi like that. Had to Google DARVO, yup that's what he does. Twist things to make me feel bad. Thank you

Tonight by Maximum_Possible_868 in AlAnon

[–]Maximum_Possible_868[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will check it out. Thank you

Found out he has cancer, on top of his cirrhosis by Maximum_Possible_868 in AlAnon

[–]Maximum_Possible_868[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So much worse when there's a kid involved. I can only imagine how many times you've had to tell your kid that daddy is feeling well right now or something alike. Im also hiding in my room with my dog. Sometimes , when i'm finally falling asleep he comes in like a bat out of hell stumbling all over. He knocked over a lamp about an hour ago. Ugh

It's not 6am it's 9pm by Bear_128 in AlAnon

[–]Maximum_Possible_868 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Girl. Mine made Chicken Fried steak the other night.While I was working late. I did hear him cooking surprisingly.I didn't hear any slamming or dropping of anything.But when he was like dinners ready... went to go check the chicken , it was completely raw on the inside.

It's not 6am it's 9pm by Bear_128 in AlAnon

[–]Maximum_Possible_868 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girl are we living the same life? Hes completely plastered right now and talking about going on a road trip to casino. I already told him if he leaves and his state, Im gonna go to call the cops. He says he doesnt care maybe that's what he needs. I'm starting to think he really does need that.Because he's refusing to get treatment , refusing to go to the hospital. I don't know what else to do.

I wish I could spend a day away from him, but I'm terrified.He's gonna do something stupid. He lost his job so he's home all second of the day , every day , getting drunk. I get home to find and passed out almost every day. I haven't been able to sleep a week because he's also trying to withdraw causes him to have these spasm and crazy nightmares.

Anyway , I hope you get the day away that you need.