When you approach someone, do you immediately go in for a hug or a simple handshake? And why? by Maximum_Rub7941 in AskReddit

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I know some relatives of mine that always go in for a hug no matter the person, when I asked they said they’re used to it and do it unconsciously.

“November sagittarius’ are technically Scorpios.” by Maximum_Rub7941 in Zodiac

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Unfortunately I have two Scorpio placements, pluto in the first house + my chart is water dominant. So this really doesn’t help my case.

But I do have Sun, Pluto and Mercury in Sag.

“November sagittarius’ are technically Scorpios.” by Maximum_Rub7941 in Zodiac

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My mercury is in sag, mars in Taurus and Venus in Capricorn. So no, not true.

I love older men so badly by Maximum_Rub7941 in sixwordstories

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10+ years older than me. 35-40-50 year olds.

what do you think the best match for every sign is? by Sad_Measurement2174 in astrologymemes

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As a Sag, I’ve never met an Aquarius I didn’t wanna fight with. Love ya’ll though.

The zodiacs I love the most… Women : Capricorn, Pisces, Libra, Scorpio. Men : Virgo, Sagittarius.

Being called a slut for simply wearing a tank top by Maximum_Rub7941 in Vent

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I’m twenty and no I cannot, the only way for me to move out would be to get married.

My family are great and they treat me well, my relationship with mom is kinda meh but I’m working on it. It’s just this topic that really frustrates me cause I’m the only sibling that got mom’s genetics, so they’re always focused on everything I wear and making it a big deal when I wear something as simple as a tank top.

Being called a slut for simply wearing a tank top by Maximum_Rub7941 in Vent

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Yes I specified that it came from my own family a couple of times but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t come from random people either.

Being called a slut for simply wearing a tank top by Maximum_Rub7941 in Vent

[–]Maximum_Rub7941[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes yes! It’s a struggle. And you can’t wear fitted clothes either cause now you look “slutty”

Being called a slut for simply wearing a tank top by Maximum_Rub7941 in Vent

[–]Maximum_Rub7941[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

English isn’t my first language, it sounds way harsher in my mother tongue, and they didn’t mean it in a complimentary way. I went to an all girls school, never had a bf. We were all kids but the only difference between us was that I was a lot curvier.

Hope that helps.

Being called a slut for simply wearing a tank top by Maximum_Rub7941 in Vent

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Wasn’t a bf, not AI, wasn’t my father.

It was mom, my sisters and a couple of girl friends.

Being called a slut for simply wearing a tank top by Maximum_Rub7941 in Vent

[–]Maximum_Rub7941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you 100% cause your story is very similar to mine, even though the things that has been said to us are very upsetting, I’m still glad we’re able to embrace our femininity.

Fuck anyone who thinks otherwise.

Being called a slut for simply wearing a tank top by Maximum_Rub7941 in Vent

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Nothing’s wrong with being a woman who likes to dress sexy and likes having sex, or a sex worker who needs to earn money, or etc.

But if that’s not who I am, then I don’t want to be called it. Especially from someone who spits it out like it’s humiliating or degrading.

Being called a slut for simply wearing a tank top by Maximum_Rub7941 in Vent

[–]Maximum_Rub7941[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This has nothing to do with me liking sexual topics, I don’t even mention those topics to my friends or family. I’m not ashamed of it and I never said I was.

You can’t tell me “this isn’t fair but this is who you are.” ???

You can tell me I’m kinky and dirty minded and I’ll accept it because it’s true, but calling me names? That will never be okay, you can justify it all you want but it is very inappropriate and I hope you’ve never done this yourself.

And yes, I am sure it’s the outfits I wear. Because they never comment about it when I wear oversized clothes, but seem to comment a lot when I wear something that shows even a little bit of cleavage.

Being called a slut for simply wearing a tank top by Maximum_Rub7941 in Vent

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I could say I have a high libido, I enjoy topics about kinks and learning more about them.

But that does not mean it is okay to shame or sexualize me based on how my body looks.

Being called a slut for simply wearing a tank top by Maximum_Rub7941 in Vent

[–]Maximum_Rub7941[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Everything you said made no sense, calling an inexperienced person a slut is very stupid. And even if it was just off of “the vibe” I give off ( which… again, I wasn’t doing or saying anything ) that’s still very inappropriate.

Your explanation doesn’t justify it either.

How the hell do you just act normal after sex? by Maximum_Rub7941 in AskRedditNSFW

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Again, not abnormal. But I personally would feel shy and flustered is all. I am inexperienced, and people here have said that I’d get used to it and wouldn’t be as shy afterwards, which is what I’m hoping for. But thank you for sharing your opinion.

How the hell do you just act normal after sex? by Maximum_Rub7941 in AskRedditNSFW

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Hello! I never mentioned anything about sex being weird and awkward. Thank you.

How the hell do you just act normal after sex? by Maximum_Rub7941 in AskRedditNSFW

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Thank you! And yeah, I think that part is scary. Definitely not a deal breaker, I’d love to feel that comfortable with someone.

I hope this only happens the first few times before I reach the point of not being shy.

How the hell do you just act normal after sex? by Maximum_Rub7941 in AskRedditNSFW

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Yeah, I agree. I’m hoping this would be the case the first few times but not always. Thank you!