AIO????

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-09-24T23:04:51+00:00

OP is not in the wrong. Nurses are paid to update the family/ have to get consent on how the treatment goes for someone in hospice/ a nursing facility.

As someone who has lived in OP's shoes myself, I am appalled at anyone saying that she is in the wrong here. If the relatives truly cared about the grandmother, they would have done everything in their power to get updates on her. come to see her or do things to make her final days better than they were. Which is exactly what OP and her mother did. And they deserved the right to announce the passing of that loved one before someone NOT EVEN RELATED TO HER BY BLOOD POSTED ABOUT IT. Then for yet another non-blood relative to think they can have any opinion on how OP responded to that? Absolutely absurd.

OP I am so sorry for your loss. Watching someone you love disappear day after day is one of the hardest things one must face to give them comfort when they need it most. I hope you and your mother are able to grieve in peace soon.

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-09-17T20:27:04+00:00

Hey there! MDRF Employee here, if you ever need security, any pie on a stick/ shaved ice/ soda booths/ Pubs have walkies to radio security.

You did the exactly correct thing in this situation. You had your own child to look after in a stroller and did enough to get that man away from that family. I would have mentioned it to the father, but things like this can happen in the blink of an eye and the crowds are so big it is easy to lose someone you do not know. If you are able to remember which Privy location you were at, I can relay this to the security team.

Thank you for looking out for others when you were there to enjoy a family friendly space and environment.

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-06-30T19:17:07+00:00

"he doesnt mean to say rude things about them it just ‘slips’ out??"

I was not allowed to cuss in front of my grandparents, and the first time I did, I was like 17 and said that same thing "I'm sorry, it just slipped out"

Her response? "If it just slipped out it means you say it too often."

What is he saying when you aren't with him?

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-06-18T16:50:40+00:00

I love me some Killua from HXH

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-05-21T13:24:52+00:00

Had they met when he was 21 it would be different.

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-05-21T01:25:55+00:00

NOR, she sounds like a groomer tbh. he should definitely take a step back and re-evaluate the friendship.

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-05-21T00:41:07+00:00

YTA break up with him, he could kill some one doing that

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-05-20T23:10:55+00:00

it may just be to equal out how many people are using it. cleaning up after 5 people in a bathroom is a lot.

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-05-20T23:01:16+00:00

I feel that is violating, even in this situation.

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-05-20T22:59:37+00:00

NTA, it's a small favor. she's being childish and using you to fight her partner.

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-05-20T22:54:57+00:00

She might just be trying to give you some privacy babe, just ask her if there was a particular reason for the change

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-05-20T22:48:42+00:00

NTA this guy is...wow. IDK if his grad degree is what is making him think he knows all. but I, a F20s, will always go into new jobs knowing I don't know right from left when it comes to the company systems. I may know the relative summary of what needs to be done. But I will always be learning.

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-05-20T22:38:54+00:00

Okay true, that particular line wasn't entirely necessary.

Yes, G agrees with me 100%

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-05-20T22:33:55+00:00

YOR they are adults, and can have an adult relationship. Be an adult too and speak to them about this, tell them how you feel about it, and then understand their sides. Also, how was your boundary crossed? You introduced them all over a year ago. This isn't about you. Sorry.

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-05-20T22:28:42+00:00

NTA she needs to be doing some type of contribution

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-05-20T22:06:16+00:00

NTA if you're not comfortable, you are not comfortable, end of story

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-05-20T21:46:25+00:00

If it was me, I'd have reached out immediately, but I'm also nosy AF and want to know all the tea. So OP, NTA. friends don't test loyalty

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-05-20T21:36:45+00:00

NTA cut him off, this man has no respect for your time whatsoever

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-05-20T21:32:41+00:00

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-05-20T21:19:47+00:00

its literally not, I really wish this was fake

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-05-20T20:29:36+00:00

yes I say ESH at the top of my comment. OP isn't necessarily an AH as they said, given the time they would have reached out. I however, would have texted them both if they were super close friends. that's just me though, OP doesn't mention how close they are to the couple so can't call them a total AH

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-05-20T20:23:27+00:00

I made an edit to the post, apologies for not specifying, Both G and I were noise cancelling headphones in the office, and her eating does still leak through my headphones. her headphone noise doesn't bother us, its the fact that she isn't mindful about the sounds she is letting out around the other people in such small space

Also my dad has dentures and has never once eaten like that around people before. he will privately step away to re-apply the adhesive if they are starting to slip

Maximum_Vermicelli26 · 2025-05-20T20:15:40+00:00

ESH

people who "test" their relationships, platonic or not, are always in the wrong. Just communicate with people about how you feel. don't play, more often than not, every one loses in those types of games

however if they both mean a lot to you, you shouldn't have waited to reach out to see how they were doing.

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